that's the stupidest @#$%! I ever heard! That's some straight disrespect right there yo! I'd be Gotti I get my Kids and let her pay for the damn house and the couch...stupid ass trick....For all u dudes out there this is the reason why u don't make no babies with a worthless (didn't a@#$%!plish ish) female 'cause u get disrespected like such. Real talk

let me tell you something, when i pay the bill in my house aint nobody can disrespect me. NOBODY.

Damn straight...wow I hate them baby mamas that think just because they had your kids they own u too... Y'all should check out TMOTOFGA on Youtube he speaks the truth and gives you 10 reasons not to date a black woman. (it ain't against black woman per se, it's about avoiding the worst of them)

she was a down chick for a minute with this dude too tho. its not like she came in and put a needle through a condom and trapped homie.

Debs situations is a @#$%!ed up one!!!

She is not getting a free ride by any means! She has no control over her life. Irv pays all her bills and@#$%!es and goes as he pleases. He can screw whoever he wants...and if she wanted to bring a man over or fall in luv she cant cause his big ass just@#$%!es and goes as he pleases cause she allows it to be that way. Shes to simple to face the fact her marriage is over and get a divorce so she settles for letting irv control he life. Sad...
DEB...GET A DIVORCE!

True, that was his wife and all.

But, having a mans children DOES NOT equal home and bill payments. That is a very low class way of thinking. If a house and bills is the equivalent, then there are a lot of underpaid women out there.

He isn't that bright and she is even dumber.

okay she better be glad the camera's was on, Gotti would have slapped that @#$%! outta her for closing that laptop. YOu can tell he was holding back.

This ish look fake.

He was holdn back.

Dudes today are worthless and it show by some of these@#$%!ments. A REAL man is always going to make sure his seeds are taken care of. Most men aren't trying to take full custody of the kids so that leaves the woman to bear the responsibility. If the woman isn't properly cared for then the kids aren't cared for. Personally I think homegirl is used to being cheated on and they are just airing they're dirty laundry for publicity, especially since Irv is planning to make a @#$%!eback". At this point in the game she's probably has the mentality that a lot of women who are married to men with money have, which is as long as the bills are paid he can do whatever he wants. I ain't mad at her either because she probably still loves him and he still loves her. And not for nothing, at the end of the day...a piece of a$$ isn't anything to be breaking up a family over...Now if he's making babies with these chicks that's a different story.

This is tv people this @#$%! aint real!

IRV GOTTI NEED TO GO C SNOOP DOGG U DON'T C SNOOP DOGG N HIS WIFE SHANTE FIGHTING N ISH LIKE DIS IRV NEED TO KNOW HOW TO SHOW SUM RESPECT 2 HIS X WIFEY
WHEN SHE WAZ TRYNA HAVE A CONVERSATION WIT HIM N ISH CUZ SHE TRYNA GET BACK WIT HIM N ISH BUT HE KEPT PAYIN NO ATTENTION 2 HER AND THAT'S PROBABLY WHY SHE GOT UPSET N ISH. LOL

That's what I am talking about. She is taking control. I understand where she is@#$%!ing from. Now the next step for her to do is to get a divorce, job etc...

Man, I would slap that Chic. How u gonna say that the house is yours because you had some kids. This makes no sense.

Yeah, I would sue this chic for custody of my kids and let her ass be by herself. See if she can afford that crib and lifestyle after she ain't getting no child support...lol

1st 1st 1st of all...I feel bad for Deb, her circumstances have brought her to this point. However, it is only her responsibility to get out of this @#$%!.

When they were at dinner, she was trying her best to express herself with words but could hardly do that...

Deb, babygirl, take some classes at your local university, cause you can only have this argument w/ Irv for a couple more years, your kids will be adults soon.

PO THANG..

oh yeah, Irv ass is slow too.

There are some very ignorant people out here!!!.. she might be a little off with the@#$%!ments but it is in fact "her house" he brought it for her and the kids... he should be responsible for helping provide them with shelter!!!!!! esp.. since he does not live with them..

And for all those men out there who say she is a piece of shi*** it's probably because you couldn't probably provide enough for a goldfish!!!!!

He pays for her and the childrens food, clothing and shelter. One of the kids isnt even biologically his. She's never had a job, she doesnt cook and she doesnt clean. How is she being treated like @#$%! again?

she is free loader. All she do is sit around and@#$%!plain,@#$%!plain,@#$%!plain..She should have her own life and her own career instead of sittting around try to dictate everything Gottis is doing or not doing for her and her way only. She needs to get some business about herself and get up off her stinking pussi.. and get something done. She knows Gotti it whoring around and u can't change nobody.. he is just the father or your kids and that's that.

Now the Irv broke , he trying to use the kids to get fame and fortune....

They still legally married.

what a buster. that is one punk a-s-s mother f-u-c-k-e-r. using the children as leverage for material possessions. that's a foul gutter trash b-i-t-c-h.

you throw my phone and talk to me like that on camera thats the last bill ill ever pay

She has every rite 2 wat she has..He ask for them 2 b seperated n they have been for 8+ years Its not lik they just got a divorce n she trying to take everything She has been stickin n there wit him wanting to make things work but now she is tired She takes care of the kids n make sure they r n school n doing the right thing then his azz cums home every weekend 2 get a nut off Its un fair flat the f*ck out

To be honest if you watched the show Gotti got caught a couple times steppin out on ol girl. Thats why they in divorce/seperated now. Not that it justifies it all but you can see why shes heated.

Can none of us say anything like, "That wouldnt be me" until you live in those shoes. Dudes a mogul. Hes flyin all over the country/world. You cant raise kids like that by yourself.

As a father myself you have to know somedays you shut the f*#k up and eat your pride for the greater good. God knows my keys been thrown on the lawn/street a couple of times. You cant go upside they head, physically throw them out, or even call the police. (Cause then they@#$%!e back in the middle of the night with wrecking your car on they mind). I have yet to meet a rational broad so believe me they plot revenge like they change shoes.

Trust me sometimes its better to just shut the f*#k up, walk out, cool off, go see the side chick whatever. The bravado and youth in you says F-dat, if that was me...blah blah blah. Im 30 years old now, you have to know there are some battles not worth fighting.

To be honest if you watched the show Gotti got caught a couple times steppin out on ol girl. Thats why they in divorce/seperated now. Not that it justifies it all but you can see why shes heated.

Can none of us say anything like, "That wouldnt be me" until you live in those shoes. Dudes a mogul. Hes flyin all over the country/world. You cant raise kids like that by yourself.

As a father myself you have to know somedays you shut the f*#k up and eat your pride for the greater good. God knows my keys been thrown on the lawn/street a couple of times. You cant go upside they head, physically throw them out, or even call the police. (Cause then they@#$%!e back in the middle of the night with wrecking your car on they mind). I have yet to meet a rational broad so believe me they plot revenge like they change shoes.

Trust me sometimes its better to just shut the f*#k up, walk out, cool off, go see the side chick whatever. The bravado and youth in you says F-dat, if that was me...blah blah blah. Im 30 years old now, you have to know there are some battles not worth fighting.

GET A JOB BIOTCH...OR GET ANOTHER MAN...

shoulda been chris brown pt 2

WOW @ some of the@#$%!ments on here blaming her. First things first..as she said..THEY'RE MARRIED!! She's not just a baby momma. Irv ran his Murder Inc. records and she stayed at home with the kids. I believe Deb wanted her MARRIAGE to work but IRV (like a typical @#$%!') wanted to have and eat his cake HIS WAY!!! It just doesn't work like that. Now he pays the bills..He ought to! That's his WIFE and that was their agreement between THEIR RELATIONSHIP. Now that Deb wants her space because her husband has no respect for their vows...She needs to take the LEGAL steps to make sure her and her kids are protected...then get a new job...a new man...and MOVE ON!!

What a joke!

There both at fault in this situation one he's cheating on her and doing what he wants while their still married and two she's staying and putting up with his Sh*t @#$%! that move on Ma.

The bottom line is she needz to get her self together and quit hatin on gotti period...i call it da bitter biatch syndrome when reality sets in wit lazy females who only laid on there baccs fo a niga and his money and werent smart enough to take a free ride education wise and business wise who's fault is it? Gotti said wut he wanted ol girl said wut she wanted and its obvious its not in either of em their expectation and needs so why da drama?...because gotti can leave and be good on da other hand wut about deb?...that's where da problem exists!!! It will be very hard for her to find financial and family stability wit someone new so in my opinion she played her self bein a biatch!! Dats why we want milk and not da whole cow feel me? The cow is always lookin' fo greener pastures and sometimes the one they got is as green as it gets!!!

I THINK DEB IS A GOOD GIRL BUT I WISH SHE HAD A HIGHER EDUCATION. THAT IS WHY I STRESS THE IMPORTANCE ON GOING TO COLLEGE. IF YOU MARRY A MAN AND LATER ON DOWN THE LINE YOU SEPERATE ITS ALWAYS GOOD THAT YOU SHOULD HAVE YOUR OWN MONEY TO SUPPORT YOUR CHILDREN AND YOURSELF. I THINK ITS TIME TO GET A DIVORCE. SHE CAN AND WILL FIND SOMEONE ELSE. YES SHE IS MAD BUT NO BITTER...SHE IS JUST TIRED OF THE CONSTANT MESS SHE HAS TO DEAL WITH. IRV IS MORE IN THE WRONG BECAUSE HE CHEATED AND IN MY BOOK HE IS STILL CHEATING BECAUSE HE IS STILL LEGALLY MARRIED TO DEB. I WOULDNT EVEN TOUCH A MAN IF HE WAS MARRIED. I JUST REALLY WISH DEB HAD HER OWN. I WOULDNT MARRY A CELEB UNLESSS I WAS ALREADY WITH HIM BEFORE THE FAME.

SHE IS NOT HIS BABY MAMA!!! THEY ARE STILL MARRIED!!!! He has been cheating on her for how many years????? Why doesn't he get a divorce? She has never worked! He has always supported the family! He broke up the family to sleep with other women! So he can't have it both ways! Watch the back episodes you will see her changing! She is FED THE F@CK UP and I don't blame her! How long does he get to just@#$%!e and go whenever he wants? Divorce her and let her move on BUT he wont do that because he is a SELFISH SON OF A BYTCH!!!

Some of these people@#$%!menting on this situation are a bunch of lames....This dude is delusional, I do believe she should get her own, cause this indian-givin fool is on that good if he thinks a woman is finna sit around and let him hunch other females and she not do anything....she's a female and she's a cute female at that, so he knows once she steps out it's going to be a dude that going to put down and watch how this dude reacts...he gone wanna make it work then.....Sucka....OOh yeah that bringing Murder Inc. back to the top.....Cancel that Bruh....it's over for yall

i would have chris brown'd dat hoe

HE PAYS FOR THE @#$%!ING HOUSE!!!! HE PAYED FOR IT, HE OWNS IT! HAVING YOUR KIDS? IT TAKES TWO PEOPLE TO HAVE KIDS!! WITHOUT HIM SHE WOULD BE IN A DUPLEX.

SHE SAT ON HER PUSSI ALL THESE YEARS AND COULD HAVE A PH.D OR SOME BUSINESSES AND PROPERY AND SHE WOULD NOT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT HIS MONEY..

Ignorant folks on here boy! That is his wife. He has his own place do you see here over there trying to run his house NO. He is petty you pay the bills she takes care of the kids and what. Bottom line he is selfish...he don't want her but don't want anyone else to have her. Girl, empower yourself and free yourself! Money ain't everything. Its more than money here its love...she is still in love with him.

Both of them are trash and need counseling.....she sitting on her pussi all day and need to get a dam career....all the shyt she got he paid for it all... she thinks kids equal payment...she is stupid and sounds dumb ass hell......all she does is@#$%!plain and@#$%!plain and sit there on every show on top of her pussi ....doing nothing but talking about how life should be for her....she is lazy and ain't got nothing going on...do you think Kimorah Lee Simmons kept up all the bullshyt after she and Russell divorced..she kept if moving happy with a career she built.....

Everybody knows how theses @#$%!s are these days and she knew it tooo... but saw the shine going on...she was in a position the most women will never see and sat back on her funky ass and didnt make nothing out of herself,,,,if she had a career and some businesses she would nt have time for his drama and would be happy doing her own thing,..... but no.. she sat back on her pussi

I dont know why men get involved with women like that in the first place. That woman is rude, ungrateful and very unlady like.

It amazes me how some people are responding to this situation. I am going to assume that 1.) Most indviduals commenting aren't married and or have not seen a functional loving marriage 2.) Don't watch the show 3.) Have little to no morals.

I say this because why is it wrong for a women to stay at home and take care of her kids. When did that become taboo. My philosophy is you can always make money but you can't get back TIME. So for those women who stay at home I salute you, because it is a very difficult job. Please do not comment on stay at home parents until you have held down the position yourself (its an unpaid position so their are no raises, no vacation days, no 10-15 min breaks, and unlike a 9 to 5 you can't leave after your shift is over because your shift never ends).

Also, they are still MARRIED, and he cheated. They met each other before Irv had money or was famous. He married her and they set up the arrangement of her staying at home (which a great deal of married folk do). She is currently in SCHOOL, and she stresses that not going to college to better herself was a mistake she made and does not want her kids to make. This was the premise for a prior episode that dealt with Angie thinking about college (Irv tried to tell his daughter Angie not to go to college becuause he didn't go what sense does that make?):-(

Lastly when they get a divorce he should pay spousal support (until she finishes school)and child support. It's the law. Irv made his bed, and it isn't a difficult bed either. I mean come on, to take care of your kids and make sure a roof is over their head is not asking alot.

I feel for Deb, and for those who somehow feel that $$$ makes up for love, committment, respect, and fidelity must be desperate. Because who in their right mind would settle for less than what God designed for them to have. No amount of money can satisfy or replace a persons desire for unconditional love.

Only some dumb @#$%!ing females will cosign with this. You had my kids so i pay all ya bills and its your house??? @#$%! outta here.

Dudes still carry pagers?

Look WTF she's right and he deserves everything she throws at him , he lucky she aint trying to take his ass for everything he has with his nasty ass cheatn and sh!* , he very lucky to have her in his life!!!