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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 9:12 AM |
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can u STFU!! SWIZZ was divorced when he got with alicia...it just that the papers were not signed....mashonda or wateva he r name is knew they wre done... but still plays that that dumb shyt about he shoulda waited for the papers to be signed before getting with someone...fck that they were divorced
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 9:53 AM |
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She's right everybody makes excuses for Alicia! Like the comment over me. You can try to justify it anyway you want but at the end of the day Alicia is a Homewrecker!! If you really believe she didn't start dating him until they were broke up then you are very gullable.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 10:22 AM |
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There's really no argument here... She's right. Sorry... Keys is a homewrecker, it is what it is.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 10:30 AM |
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I lost respect for Alicia Keys. As a married woman, I'm very tired of black women defending homewrecking. No woman, irrespective of race, can build happiness on another woman's tears. Your day is coming,Alicia. Be ye not deceived; what a man sows, so shall he reap!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 10:31 AM |
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shorty is 100% correct and i love her music but she is right. the only reason no one's callin it like it is because she is a celebrity. But in my eye she jus a self righteous hoe!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 10:32 AM |
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If anyone wrecked that home it was Swizz, he's the one who took the vows. Now matter how attracted he was to Alicia he was a married man and he decided to pursue a relationship with another woman. All he had to do was say no but obviously he wasn't happy in his marriage. No one pointed a gun at his head and told him to leave his wife for another woman. I know that maybe hard for some of you to believe because you're on the official AK hate patrol (Light skin vs. Dark skin, yeah I said it) and you're not looking as this objectively. The truth is none of us knows what happened in that marriage but if anyone wanted it to be over more than likely it was Swizz @#$%! -says the brown-hornet
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 11:01 AM |
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Swiss home was already wrecked that's why he now with AK.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 11:07 AM |
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somethings are destined to happen it does not matter if one are married or not. Destiny does not care about a piece of paper.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 11:09 AM |
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Funny how men are never called a homewrecker.
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♫♥☆♪MISS B 91♫♥☆♪ Says:
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7/6/2010 11:49 AM |
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ive said it b4 and I'll say it again there is no such thing as a home @#$%! is wrong 4 the part she played in the whole situation though
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 11:55 AM |
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You are so right about Alicia keys being a homewrecker. I know married men that constantly try to get with single women. They tell the same story, "My marriage is over". A righteous woman will turn that married man down and tell him that she is not interested in breaking up a marriage. If Swiss who by the way has babies mommas all over, does this to Moshanda, he will do the same thing to Alicia.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 12:02 PM |
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She is so stupid. She is commenting on a relationship she knows nothing about.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 12:03 PM |
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Swizz had nothing to do with it right? Wasn't he the married party in the matter? He can't stay faithful?
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 12:25 PM |
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ALICIA KEYS IS A MAJOR WHOOOREBAG.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 12:42 PM |
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There's no such thig as a homewrecker. Happy people don't leave marriages. Swizz has nobody to blame but himself for all of this stupid talk. He should just tell the truth. If Mashonda was ackin' a fool, naggin' him, disrespecting him, runnin' of at the mouth, etc, he should say so. Men aren't putting up with bad marriages anymore. Point blank - period.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 12:55 PM |
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i couldnt help but lose respect for alicia, i wouldnt have if she were younger but she should know way better than what she has shown,
the pass is given to her bc of her looks too.
MEDIA OUTLETS NEED TO STOP IGNORING THE PINK ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM, I MEAN SHE S PREGNANT BY A DUDE WHO JUST GOT HIS DIVORCE FINALIZED A COUPLE MONTHS AGO, BOTTOM LINE IS THAT THEY JUST COULDNT WAIT TIL THE DIVORCE WAS FINAL SO THEY COULD F*CK, THEY HAD TO DO IT BEFORE THEN
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 1:08 PM |
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I'll bet that all these people saying that no one can wreck a marriage are not MARRIED! All marriages have problems because there is NO Such thing as a perfect marriage. I know that marriages can be saved and these homewreckers are not conducive to the salvage of any HOLY MATRIMONY! People who wreck homes, man, woman, celebrity or otherwise, are messing with God's plan! That's why it's wrong, regardless of who took the vows. If you mess with someone who took the vows with someone else, you're still a guilty party. Wake up people, and stop defending homewreckers. Yeah, a marriage may have a dent or two (problems), but these third party hoes, just bring the whole house down. It's wrong for Alicia or any body else.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 1:24 PM |
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damm! who is this lady.. she is very beautiful
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 2:36 PM |
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I have zero respect for Keys and karma is a mutha! Wut goes around comes around so she better keep one eye on Swizz and his big nose
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 2:54 PM |
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The young lady does make a good point.....I've lost a lot of respect for @#$%! also, never thought she would go this route....hope it was worth it
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 3:19 PM |
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I guess Alecia Keys calls this "Keeping it real" huh? lol
1. A.K. was against women wearing form-fitting & revealing clothes. Now: A.K. dresses like a Power Ranger in every performance lol
2. A.K. was about black love and wholesome families
Now: A.K. broke up a marriage
3. A.K. wasn't a gold digger, was against thug music, was 100% about neo-soul culture and lifestyle.
Now: because of Swiss Beats' MONEY.....here's Alecia Keys: A. chose a thug producer who ONLY makes gangster rap music B. he has tatoo's everywhere C. he was married with a very young kid D. he makes music about the demise of the black community in every way imaginable.
Conclusion: She is scum, but you over-look it because it's a pretty face. Think fella's....think.
Note: I'm a brotha' telling you this.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 3:42 PM |
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Of course AK is trash. She joined the New World Order Luciferian Illuminati agenda. Look at the symbolism in her album cover (especially the original before they changed it). Empire State Of Mind was her coming out. This AK isn't the same chick singing Fallin'. Another corrupted chick bites the dust like Bey, Rihanna, and all the rest.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 3:43 PM |
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emales will give another females a pass under most situation . Men 2 the same @#$%! . Blacklist ! N most chicks know how it is 2 @#$%! or want somebody else man . Knowing or unknowingly ...
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 3:57 PM |
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Giiirrrrrrrlllll! Sh!t, Get a man already! Somebody ain't hittin that rite at all! @#$%!, I ain't had none in months & hell I ain't that damn bad off! You is workin my last nerve... everytime u open ur mouth u never mention how happy u r in ur own relationship! Sh!t, STFU! You chasin all the good nig&as away! You probably talk wit that same irritating as nag during sex! shut Up, shut up, SHUT UP!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 4:22 PM |
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...who the fukk CARES??!!!...
...why r u sooo invested in their lives?...is your man cheating?...
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 5:11 PM |
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I'm glad someone has asked the question. Now she is pregnant she is proudly walking around with him like he didn't have a wife or new baby himself, she should stop talking about being a strong female because she is just wrong in this whole mess.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 5:15 PM |
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As the elders would say...." Dont open one door before you close the other!"
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 5:59 PM |
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@ 11:09 do you know what a home wrecker is? swiss cant be the home wrecker in this ALICIA KEYS WASNT MARRIED AND HE CAME IN BETWEEN HER AND HER HUSBAND. IT HAS TO BE A HOME TO WRECK DUH? HE IS A CHEATER @#$%! USUALLY DONT TAKE WOMEN WHO ARE MARRIED AND CHEATS WITH THEM SERIOUSLY, THEY STAY AT JUMP OFF STATUS. -DETROIT!!!!!!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 6:10 PM |
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Men are going to cheat. Men are going to be weak. They're going to stumble. Well thank you for that blanket statement Sistah Souljah
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 7:10 PM |
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I was at Essence fest. Women refused to show Alicia any love. But the truth of things is that Swizz is the homewrecker idiots. Who is the person who stood before the world, professed their love, and promised their fidelity? YOUR SPOUSE, not the jump off. When cheating occurs, YOUR SPOUSE is the piece of sh*t. Why are people too damn dumb to realize this? Don't be a dummy.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 7:15 PM |
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Homewrecking is a myth - when your partner moves on to the next one, don't plan the new person. Yes it hurts but blame your partner.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 7:17 PM |
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I'm baffled by you chick!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 7:17 PM |
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shut up you don't know the whole story you know what the media put out like everybody else. I would never condone this behavior but shut up and mine yo bussiness and worrie about yo husband, if you got one. I didnt see a ring so must not, but what do I know? Ya get it, stop assuming or going off what you think happen.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 8:19 PM |
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I agree! I am a huge AKeys fan but this sh*t stinks to the high heavens. Was Tucan Sam worth all this ish AKeys? I liked her when she was with Kerry her ex boyfriend! She is a homewrecker period. If she loved this man Swizz she should of told him give me divorce papers and then holla at me til then she should of stayed away til the divorce was final! She look like a homewrecker and a hypocrite at the same time. How can she sing all these songs...and do this ish. AKeys is a god artist and love her older albums and such but she turn me off with her image.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 8:52 PM |
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alicia n swiss r full time now.... cut it out !!!!!
mashonda and swiss been had issues and thats it
leave the new couple alone swiss and alicia waited until the divorce was final till they started going places in the public eye .....they handled their drama the best possible way
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 9:03 PM |
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Alicia Keys could not have broken up a marriage that didn't already have cracks in it. Yes her part in it was wrong. But hers was just that....a part. Swizz Beats is responisble for the other part. You can't lay blame solely at the feet of A Keys. It' takes two. If it had'nt been A Keys, it would've been some other woman. More than likely, there was other women. The only difference is Alicia Keys name is more recognizable than the other heifers Swizz has probably laid up with.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 9:06 PM |
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why do people invest so much energy in others affairs? it wont help you sleep any better. sheeesh!!!!
get all the gossip in for 2010, i mark 2011 as the GET A LIFE MIND YOUR BIZZ movement.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 9:40 PM |
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"There were cracks in their marriage any way" Shut up! What relationship doesn't have bumps? Stop trying to justify it, because husband and wife, were having tough times.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 10:06 PM |
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if she wasn't famous it would'nt be your business.Moreover it is still not your business....Her being famous does not give you the right to sit down and analyse her life cos I don't think you would appreciate it if someone whom you have never come in contact with does the same to you. You just draw conclusions from heresays and you assume you are right?.That apart,He is now offically divorced,they are engaged and they are expecting a baby so can we like move on? or what do we suggest we do about that? Pray for a miscarriage?jeez!!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 10:18 PM |
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Who cares??? He upgraded. they are happy together. Mind your own business.
Alicia didn't "cause him to stumble". Swizz wasn't happy with Mashonda so he moved on. Period.
To the married women out there: It's not the other woman's job to "leave your man alone", it's your job to keep your man happy. You can't think that just because you have a piece of paper that says "married" on it that he's going to stay locked in a relationship even when he is not satisfied or happy. If a man thinks that he can do better than he will try to do better. A man is as faithful as his options. If he thought that Mashonda was better than Alicia then he would still be with Mashonda. If you want to keep your man then it is YOUR job to let him know that no one is better for him than you. The minute he thinks that he can get another woman to take better care of him than you is the minute you lost your man. Don't blame the other woman because you dropped the ball.
Being a wife is like having a job. If you are not doing a good job or if someone else can do your job betten then you are not above getting replaced. Mashonda learned that the hard way.
Alicia and Swizz are happy. Hopefully Mashonda will learn from this and move on and find happiness in her own life.
I wish them all the best.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 10:35 PM |
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oh, get real, this happens every day...why is she any different. Being a superstar is such a responsibilty , lets face it, love has no rules and its just the way it is....u just want 2 have something to say ....stop with the politics...if his love with his wife was any kinda strong it would not have happened so it had to be over for him to fall for somebody else..period end of story,,, dont post something crude about one of our beautiful successful black women only cause you wanna have something to say. sounds like somebody left your ass cause he wasnt happy. another woman scorned by love..nobody said in the book of love (like there is such a book) that it has to last forever, sometimes it doesnt...if a man is happy, lets face it they r only human too, he wouldnt have been searching for anything else...Be happy she is happy..woman can be so negative when it comes to another womans happiness...why do SOME woman envy and hate so much..like your perfect the only difference between you and alicia keys is that she is in the spotlight..So stop critiquing and put yourself in her shoes, when you get the chance to have something genuine and real (in her position) she has to monitor every move she makes in fear shes gonna be critique by peeps like you....Get over it and learn how to love yourself....and stop hating on those that you only wish u could be...
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 10:50 PM |
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aaaahhhhhh shut up...u sound like somebody stepped on your heart....is that what you want acknowledgement, ok we heard you..a divorce is a ugly process that takes time and nobody is all too quick to go through it. so it might have been over before it was legally over...listen barbie doll i dont know what world you live in, but there are a things that have been done wrong since the begining of time just because its alicia keys does not mean she should sacrifice love because people like you have an opinion...just like an asshole everybody has one..you cant be a home-wrecker if the home was already wrecked...you must have been there ringside to have such a strong opinion, you talk like you was there first-hand by Swizz side to be so damn judgmental, Thats the problem with some folks, you just cant be happy for the other person so consumed in your own little tragedy(whatever it is)sounds like your a HATERRRRRRR
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 10:55 PM |
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@#$%! Swizz Beatz can wreck my home any day. And my ass too...MAYWOOD a/k/a GAYWOOD. Cum get some!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 10:56 PM |
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... married men cheat, period...
...if you're gonna throw stones at the adultress, then do the same to the cheating husband too...
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 11:14 PM |
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WHY ARE MY SISTAS SO DAMN NOSEY.....MAYWOOD
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 11:24 PM |
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SERIOUSLY DO U THINK ALICIA KEYS CARES ABOUT YOUR @#$%! WHO ARE YOU. THIS BALD HEAD B!TCH GON HAVE YALL PICKETING SOMEWHERE GETTING SHOT @.LMAO.....MAYWOOD.YALL HOES GOTTA GET A LIFE
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 11:33 PM |
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I used to love Alicia music so much but not anymore. I HATE HOMEWRECKERS. And her and swizz are both to blame. I hope the unborn baby dies in alicia's womb and she has a still birth by giving birth to a DEAD BABY. The fruits of an adultress homewrecking wh*re and bastard of a man (swizz). And I hope she looses her womb and looses any chance of having a cild altogether. I hate those who destroy marriages and vows.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/6/2010 11:45 PM |
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I HOPE U DIE TONITE^^^^, A KEYS AINT LOSING NO SLEEP OVER YOU LOSERS.....MAYWOOD
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jazzylu23 Says:
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7/7/2010 1:51 AM |
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This video is stupid. Every grown person knows enough to form their own opinions about the situation. Some agree in supporting Alicia Keys, some do not. I just feel sorry for the children that end up involved in these situations. We all know about vows and right and wrong and blah, blah, blah.... Of course I do believe that Keys being a celeb does play in role in the kind of support she generates.... but that is solely up to the person/s who choose to make that exception. It is just sad that celeb or not the kids get brought into situation where they will have siblings with different mothers or father. There are so many broken homes.... really sad stuff.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/7/2010 6:55 AM |
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I used to love Alicia music so much but not anymore. I HATE HOMEWRECKERS. And her and swizz are both to blame. I hope the unborn baby dies in alicia's womb and she has a still birth by giving birth to a DEAD BABY. The fruits of an adultress homewrecking wh*re and bastard of a man (swizz). And I hope she looses her womb and looses any chance of having a cild altogether. I hate those who destroy marriages and vows.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/7/2010 6:58 AM |
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Relationships end. Swizz marriage was over when he met AK. They fell in love. Case closed. Nobody breaks up anyone's situation. AK is a beautiful woman and a tremendous humanitarian. None of you are fit to condemn her.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/7/2010 8:45 AM |
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have a crush on this beautiful woman here. is she a @#$%! star? I wanna holler at her
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/7/2010 8:53 AM |
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YES, ALICIA KEYS IS A BEAUTIFUL WOMEN AND IS TALENTED BLAH, BLAH, BLAH, HOWEVER, I HAVE LOST RESPECT FOR HER. SOME OF YOU ARE SAYING THE SWIZZ BROKE UP WITH HIS WIFE AND THE RELATIONSHIP WAS OVER AND THAT VERY WELL MAY BE. BUT KEYS AND SWIZZ WERE CREEPING WAY BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY AND NEWS BROKE. POINT IS THAT HE WAS STILL MARRIED. THEY COULD HAVE WAITED OR MADE SOME SORT OF ANNOUNCEMENT AS TO NOT DISREPECT HIS WIFE. KEYS IS ANOTHER ONE OF THOSE MULATTO CHICKS WHO OFTEN SEEMS TO HAVE TO PROVE HER "BLACKNESS" I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR HER. SHES TRIFFLING
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/7/2010 10:05 AM |
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Most of the people who are against Alicia an Swizz being together are women. These are the same women who would rather treat their husbands like garbage and expect them to stay with them (because of vows). As I've stated earlier, Men are not staying in bad marriages anymore. Those days are gone. True love waits for nobody. These two look very happy. I'm willing to bet that Mashonda (like a great deal of other women) assumed that since she had the man and the kid, there was no need to treat the man good anymore. That's a HUGE mistake. While you're dogging him out, there is going to be another woman who will take notice, and swoop right in to treat that man good. Then you wanna blame her? That's wrong. For all the women that are hating this relationship, please take note and make sure you are treating your man as though you want to keep him. No man wants to be treated like crap, when they know there is better out there. Real talk.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/7/2010 10:41 AM |
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TO ALL OF MY AFRICAN AMERICAN SISTERS:
WE REALLY CANT BLAME HER. HE'S THE ONE TO BLAME. BLACK MEN ARE SO PATHETIC AND TO BE HONEST ARE NOT MEN. ITS TIME THAT BLACK WOMEN LOOK FOR LOVE, SUPPORT AND RESPECT FROM OTHER ETHNIC GROUPS. TRUST ME, IM NOT A BITTER BLACK WOMEN NOR WAS I HURT BY BLACK MEN. IT SEEMS THAT ALL I EVER HAVE SEEN BE THROUGH FRIENDS AND FAMILY IS HOW BLACK MEN TAKE NO RESPONSIBILITY IN THEIR PATHETIC BEHAVIOR. THEY HAVE NO RESPECT FOR BLACK WOMEN WHAT SO EVER. PERSONALLY, I DONT RESPECT BLACK MEN AND THINK THAT THEY CAN NOT BE TRUSTED
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/7/2010 2:49 PM |
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You consider to have 'hoe like tendencies' because they fell in love with a guy going through a separation with his soon to be ex wife? Obviously you have a warped sense of what being a whore really is. I don't blame either one of them for falling love the other, you can't help who you love. I would though, blame Swizz for not making things more clear with Mashonda because she obviously thought that there was some way they were going to work things out when he had clearly already moved on. I don't give Alicia a pass because she's famous, I don't think she did anything wrong to begin with. They were separated for SOME time. How long is she supposed to wait in order to have a relationship? I don't understand why everyone is trying to put a time limit on this. People split up and stay apart for MANY years, if not forever, mainly because divorce is way too hectic and expensive for a lot of people, so the just go their separate ways. I really don't think it's any of our business. We all should be happy if they're happy and live or own lives.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/7/2010 4:32 PM |
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You really shouldn't be worried about it. BLK women love talking about the next person situation.....we can see nobody cutting her yard lol
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/7/2010 5:42 PM |
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lol @DimeWars, when I called her a homewrecker once before, Maywood and alot of other people started dissing me. Im glad someone else agrees with me.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/7/2010 6:42 PM |
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Hell will not make an exception, even for true love. With that said, have a nice day.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/8/2010 1:21 AM |
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i would love to have sex with her
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/8/2010 4:45 AM |
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@ 3:19 U SOUND JUST LIKE THESE UGLY HOES ON HERE.......MAYWOOD
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/8/2010 6:12 AM |
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ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE ME! MIND YOUR BUSINESS........
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/8/2010 9:36 AM |
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This woman is right about this whole situation. Believe me, what goes around comes around. Just see how long this guy and Alicia stay together. They will get their reward for doing this. No good will come out of this relationship.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/8/2010 9:37 AM |
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You are right!!!! I support you 100%!!!!!!! Alicia Keys is a dirty holy hoe!!!!!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/8/2010 9:59 AM |
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IF HE DIDN'T WANT HER ASS........UPGRADE..LMAO BITTER B!TCHES.......MAYWOOD
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/8/2010 10:24 AM |
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It doesn't matter when they got together it's their business and NOT ours no ones knows the real story but them so MYOB!!!!!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/8/2010 10:24 AM |
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It doesn't matter when they got together it's their business and NOT ours no ones knows the real story but them so MYOB!!!!!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/8/2010 11:21 AM |
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/8/2010 11:28 AM |
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i agree, it was her decision, she knew things had not been finished and documents had not been signed, but i will say this having been another women once because i was the one pregnant and eventually had the baby, you have to rationalize with yourself, but then you realize how much respect this man just lost for you because you let him in knowing he was with someone else. once i said no, it was already to late because i was pregnant with a second child he stopped speaking to me for a very long time because i would not have an abortion because he didnt want to tell his girlfriend about the baby and of course the affair , but i have never fully regained my self-respect back after that, i degraded myself and getting pregnant a second time put the icing on the cake. but again it was a bad choice on my part, but everyone does not have those same feelings
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/8/2010 11:33 AM |
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maybe their marriage already had problems b4 alicia came in the picture and maybe he wasnt in love with his wife @#$%! more at fault than her bcuz he was a married man and he didnt care,if he left his wife for her then the love he had for her left.We're on the outside looking in and we really dont know what the inside was @#$%! only tell the media what they want them to know so we really dont know what the inside of their home was like. Dont hate on her bcuz shes a beautiful attractive woman and im not disagreeing on everything u said but dont put it all on her bcuz its not the women fault its the men,these men should respect their home more than what they do and its obvious that Alicia was worth letting go of the love of his @#$%! can see that u have alot of anger and that tells us u been going through the same @#$%! these men and they cant help whom they're attracted to...you can be the perfect wife for your husband and the freakiest and he will still @#$%! happens in any marriage...the cheating depends on the love your husband has for you and if its worth it.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/8/2010 11:35 AM |
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i am a very big fan of alica keys but i have to say i thought she was better than this. her music is so inspiring and brillant im amazed that she would publicly be involved in something so distasteful. mashonda has a right to be furious alica is very pregnant and the divorce is only two weeks old so they were fooling around behind this womens back. i guess we shall see how long this lasts.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/8/2010 12:20 PM |
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You have a good point, However, it is not your life it is Alicia's life. She is who must live it, not you, she is who has to answer to a higher power, not you. It is her life, if you do not like it "turn the other cheek" simple. You actually recorded this, is this your life, get real.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/8/2010 12:50 PM |
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all yall need to shut up when yall know nothing about what's going on with them. yall are looking on the outside so how you know what's going on. of course everyone wants to play the victim. just like dwayne wade messing with grabielle union and he aint divorced yet so i guess ms. union is a homewrecker too and every other woman who starts to date a man before he is divorced even though they are separated.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/8/2010 1:03 PM |
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Yes, KeyS is a HOMEWRECKER..SWIZZ AND MASHONDA WAS NOT DIVORCE IF THE PAPER WASN'T SIGN..THEY WILL BE DIVORCE ONCE THE PAPERS ARE SIGN..KEYS AND SWIZZ WAS ALREADY TOGETHER PUT IT DIDN'T COME OUT UNTIL SHE GOT PREGGO..KEYS WROTE A SONG CALLED KARMA,,SHE CAN USED HER OWN ADVICE..WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND..EVEN HARDER..IF SWIZZ CHEATED ON HIS WIFE FOR KEYS,HE'LL CHEAT ON KEYS WITH SOMEONE ELSE..KEYS SHOULD'VE HAVE BETTER SENSE THAN THAT...
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/8/2010 9:52 PM |
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Well I will say this much, we only can comment on what is released in the media. I will also point out that lets be real about this, if the marriage had no issues and both parties were happy then there is no reason for either parties to step outside of the relationship. Now another issue that seem to come up with the multiple interviews that was given by the exwife is that she seems to feel like she was intitled because they had been dealing with each other for so long, in other words she got content and too comfortable, and let her guard down. A marriage is hard work and even more work to keep it going. Now what role alicia actually played in causing a rift in this marriage we will never know. I will also say we don't know what was going on behind closed doors in there marriage either, if there is any truth to her having an issue with his first son, did she get pregnant so that she would feel that the other female didn't have something over her. Was he stepping out on the relationship before and it was not made a big deal of because he comes home to her at night? After all she claims that she didn't think it was as serious as it was when she found out about the relationship. Right or wrong on who ever part, they are divorced now and as long as he takes care of his child with her live and let live.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/8/2010 10:05 PM |
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I think we all agree that there is more to a marriage than a piece of paper. It is a union as one body, mind and sole. When you no longer are on the same page with things in life or shooting for the sky together marriage may need to be re-evaluated. People do fall out of love with each other or grow apart, does that mean because they got married they should just remain that way because they have kids? No, it makes an unhappy situation the eventually the kids will pick up on and now you got a whole new issue going on. I don't believe that there was a happy home there, april of 08 a statement was released saying that they were filing for a divorce and had been seperated for seven months prior to that. I will say that it is clear that Alicia and Swizz relationship started prior to the ink being dry on the divorce paperwork, Mashonda just wanted to point fingers at someone for her failed marriage with out taking a good look in the mirror. Just because his relationship with this women started prior to the divorce decree being finalized don't make her a homewrecker, because there was no home to wreck, he was doing his thing with the release of his album and they tried to put on that family front at the release party but she even said in an interview she wasn't fond of the idea that he was doing the rap artist thing releasing an album and promoting and touring so close to the birth of there son.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/8/2010 11:49 PM |
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if this is true, alicia is very wrong. Both parties are wrong but Alicia is not right but I think that she is given a free pass because she is a celebrity.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/9/2010 10:20 AM |
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Why did Maywood comment on this video about 8 times? Get a life lil nigguh
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/9/2010 1:32 PM |
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She totally made a valid point on both sides of being a married man and being a loose hoe,...temptaion is a mutherluva and you gotta have the strength and GOD himself to overcome that urge!!!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/9/2010 5:19 PM |
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/9/2010 6:40 PM |
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the comments show that there are a lot of people who have low to no morals and I feel sorry for all of you. This girl is 100% correct. Alicia needs to know that if this fool did it to her he will do it to her to. relationships built on lies will always crumble.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/9/2010 9:33 PM |
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this lady is gorgeous!
lmao @ 4:22PM comment
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REALCHICK Says:
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7/9/2010 9:51 PM |
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She spoke the truth and I cosign with her message.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/9/2010 10:46 PM |
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HOW SAD IS IT WHEN PEOPLE SIT IN THEIR BACKYAD AND MAKE LONG AZZ RANT VIDEOS ABOUT PEOPLE THEY WILL NEVER MEET, AND NEVER KNOW
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/9/2010 11:29 PM |
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Shut da F**k up
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/10/2010 3:02 AM |
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STFUP!!! THAT RELATIONSHIP WAS OVER BEFORE AK!! YALL JUST LOOKING FOR SOMETHING TO HATE ON AK ABOUT!! LOL!! YALL EXPECT FOR US TO STAY WITH YALL WHEN THE @#$%! HAS BEEN OVER WITH SINCE DIRT?!! DO YALL STAY WITH US WHEN THE SHEET HAS BEEN OVER WITH SINCE DIRT?! HELL NAW!!YALL TAKE YALLS BOOTY TWITCHIN AZZEZ SOMEWHERE ELSE AND DEMAND CHILD SUPPORT FROM US!! AND THIS HEFFA JUST GOT OUT OF HER DIAPERS!! WTF DOES SHE KNOW?!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/10/2010 7:53 PM |
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NO one but Swizz, Alicia and Mashonda knows what went on so I don't understand how can anyone put their two cents in.....and if she is correct Alicia isn't the first nor will she be the last celeb or not. It's been happening since the beginning of time!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/10/2010 11:59 PM |
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They did the Unthinkable...He's happy and She's happy..thats all that matter right??? Get over it people..HAPPINESS IS KEY..FIND THE JOY IN YOUR LIFE PEOPLE..THAT IS WHAT ITS ALL ABOUT
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/11/2010 11:28 AM |
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I was a big A. Keys fan, but at this point I do not have respect for her anymore. Very disappointed.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/11/2010 3:36 PM |
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it sounds like all the blame is being put on alicia keys and any women that has slept with married men. I will say that since none of us know if AK pursued swizz or he pursued her first. How do we know that nothing sexual even happen until Swizz and Mashonda were actually seperated from each other. They were having issues in 07 cause 4 months into 08 a statement was released saying they were getting a divorce and had been seperated for seven months prior too. I think they tried the public front of togetherness at the release of his album and her birthday in jan. of 08 but things were brewing behind closed doors because if the marriage was so strong how in three month a complete breakdown so statements are being release about a divorce, if they were working on issues or trying to be private about marital issues why release statement unless marriage was done? Now technically he started the relationship with AK prior to divorce being finalized but he isn't the first man to start a new relationship prior to divorce being finalized and he will not be last. This don't mean AK recked there marriage because she is the female he is now dealing with.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/11/2010 4:16 PM |
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Let us not forget that Alicia Keys was @#$%!ing Rick Fox while he was married to Vanessa Williams!!!! I remember that @#$%!... supastardiva6
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/11/2010 4:19 PM |
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Let us not forget that Alicia Keys was @#$%!ing Rick Fox while he was married to Vanessa Williams!!!! I remember that @#$%!... supastardiva6
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/12/2010 12:32 AM |
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Yep Yep..Preach Girlfriend....Skank is a Skank no matter how good she sings or plays the piano..And men need to stop thinking with the head between they legs and use the one on they neck! nuff said
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/12/2010 12:11 PM |
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this girl wish she could sleep with swizzy, or that she could be as famous as alicia, but she can't so she gona go talk about these people behind their backs. just another yapper. shut it nobody cares, especially swizz and alicia. they're happier about their lives than you are of yours, get a life.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/12/2010 4:19 PM |
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IDIOT.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/13/2010 12:17 AM |
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IT ALL COMES DOWN TO THIS ALICIA AND SWIZZ R GROWN THEY HAVE TO PAY FOR THEIR SINS. YES HE WAS MARRIED BUT HOW LONG HAVE THEY BEEN SEPERATED? DO WE EVEN KNOW THAT HIS WIFE WAS COMPLETLY FAITHFUL? I WAS TOLD THE SAME THING U DID TO GET THAT MAN U GOT TO KEEP DOIN TO KEEP THAT MAN. IM NT FOR THE CHEATIN BUT IT HAPPENS NO NEED SLAMIN THAT WOMAN WHEN ITS TWO SIDES TO EVERY STORY. SOMETIMES RELATIONSHIPS R OVERDUE OVA BUT WE STILL TRY TO HANG ON FOR WUT WE THINK R GOOD REASONS INSTEAD OF HAPPINESS. AND IM PRETTY DAM SURE THAT HIS WIFE WAS DOIN HER THEN AND NOW B 4 THE DIVORCE WAS FINAL ALSO BUT NO ONE KNWS OR SPEAKIN ON IT BLK WOMEN WANT TO POINT FINGERS EVEN THOUGH WE ALL GON GO THROUGH THE BULL AT SUM POINT AND WE MAY BE STRONG AND LEAVE BUT 8 OUT OF 10 GON @#$%! NOT!!!!!!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/13/2010 12:21 AM |
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IT ALL COMES DOWN TO THIS ALICIA AND SWIZZ R GROWN THEY HAVE TO PAY FOR THEIR SINS. YES HE WAS MARRIED BUT HOW LONG HAVE THEY BEEN SEPERATED? DO WE EVEN KNOW THAT HIS WIFE WAS COMPLETLY FAITHFUL? I WAS TOLD THE SAME THING U DID TO GET THAT MAN U GOT TO KEEP DOIN TO KEEP THAT MAN. IM NT FOR THE CHEATIN BUT IT HAPPENS NO NEED SLAMIN THAT WOMAN WHEN ITS TWO SIDES TO EVERY STORY. SOMETIMES RELATIONSHIPS R OVERDUE OVA BUT WE STILL TRY TO HANG ON FOR WUT WE THINK R GOOD REASONS INSTEAD OF HAPPINESS. AND IM PRETTY DAM SURE THAT HIS WIFE WAS DOIN HER THEN AND NOW B 4 THE DIVORCE WAS FINAL ALSO BUT NO ONE KNWS OR SPEAKIN ON IT BLK WOMEN WANT TO POINT FINGERS EVEN THOUGH WE ALL GON GO THROUGH THE BULL AT SUM POINT AND WE MAY BE STRONG AND LEAVE BUT 8 OUT OF 10 GON STAY. JUDGE NOT!!!!!!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/13/2010 1:17 AM |
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I DIGG HER TAKE ON THIS SITUATION... I WISH ALOT OF WOMEN HAD CHARACTER AND A CONSCIOUS LIKE THIS CAUSE ONLY THEN WOULD I ACTUALLY WANT A WIFE ONE DAY. A GOOD KAT WOULD BE A FOOL TO PICK A WIFE OUT OF THIS (BUNCH) 2DAY. AND I KNOW ITS ALOT OF PIECE OF SH*T MEN OUT THERE TOO BUT I DON'T DEFEND (THEM). I FEEL THE FEMALES PAIN TOO. I JUST DON'T LIKE WHEN FEMALES DEFEND THESE TYPES OF WOMEN THAT (IF U THINK ABOUT IT) // MESSES UP THE CHANCES OF YOU ALL FINDING A GOOD MAN. IF WE DON'T SEE GOOD QUALITY IN A WOMEN THEN WE WON'T TREAT YOU AS A QUEEN THEREFORE LOWERING OUR ABILITIES TO BE A KING(GOOD MAN). WE (THE AVERAGE MAN)DOES WHAT EVER IT TAKES TO GET THE ATTENTION OF THE FEMALE.(I'M NOT BEAT) BLACK WOMEN HAVE THE RESPONSIBILITY OF MAINTAINING THE BALANCE AND POSITIVE PROGRESSION OF OUR PEOPLE. WE NEED THE POWER OF THE BLACK WOMENS LOVE AND SUPPORT..... I LUV YALL !!! --------NEWARK,NJ
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/15/2010 8:16 PM |
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So basically the marriage was already broken and he decided to stay with the mistress Alicia K. Mashonda you basically admitted that you really wasn't there for your husband in a lot of ways , and yes she is getting a Hussy - Pass but not from me . If the love was still there between the two , both would have tried too make it work and find alternatives . I wish you all well because there is 3 sides to every story and if it wasn't AK , sounds like it would have surely been someone else . I'm not condoning adultery . I wish the best for you Mashonda for being brave too even put your business out there being hurt. This too shall pass , keep God first because you still at some point have to deal with this women . What goes around comes around .
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/17/2010 1:02 PM |
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I have so much to say about this topic, like a lot of people do. But I won't go into all my thoughts on this, but I will say that women are so quick to bash a man who cheats, but if it wasn't for women LETTING them cheat with THEM, then men wouldn't cheat if there were no one to cheat with! See where I'm going with this? And I'm just speaking in general here, not necessarily about these 3. So ladies don't complain about something you let happen. Yes I know most men are weak and can't resist temptaion, but women also play a huge part in men cheating. It takes 2 to tango!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/17/2010 1:09 PM |
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And all the people who says they've lost all respect for AK...who the fukk cares??? I doubt if she gives 5 sh*ts about having the respect of people she don't even know, haven't seen, haven't met, whatever! Yall don't know her personally, so I'm sure she's not thinkin' about yall's respect. Do yall respect yourselves??? That's the respect yall should be worried about. As long as yall keep yall disrespect to yaselves and not come at her with it, then that's cool! Who cares how yall feel??????
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/18/2010 3:59 PM |
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hmmmm.. who are you?.... I get it but you sound like a 11th grader trying to sound like a grad student.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/18/2010 4:25 PM |
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/18/2010 10:04 PM |
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First of all, Swizzbeatz or whatever his name is, apparently can't make a committment to any woman and stick with it since he has all of those kids with two, now three different women. And second, he and his wife weren't having too many problems because she got knocked up again. He and Keys were messing around while he was still married because she did an interview a little over a year ago, and she was asked about their relationship. I don't condone what either one of them has done, but a woman is expected to show respect for the sisterhood because men don't have the sense to keep it to themselves. Dogs will be dogs, and for all of you brothers who say Mashonda wasn't keeping her man happy; why is it always the woman's responsiblity to keep things going? If we have to do everything, what the hell do we need your asses for? Sidenote; why this ugly ass man have two beautiful women fighting over him is beyond me. I hope none of his children look like him because he is fkc up. Dammmmnnnn, he's ugly.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/19/2010 3:20 PM |
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Uhm, if the papers weren't signed, they were NOT divorced. And Swizz and @#$%! were messing with each other while Swizz and Mashonda were still LIVING TOGETHER as HUSBAND & WIFE. He's trifling. And she's a home wrecker. And damn right wait for them papers to be signed. Handle your business first, make sure you got your drama straight BEFORE you start knocking up other chicks. As a matter of fact, if a woman is willing to mess around and be your side ho until she can be your full-time piece, then that's a woman that you can run all over and do anything that you want to do to her. Swizz WILL cheat again. PLEASE BELIEVE IT.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/20/2010 2:47 PM |
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life is to short it is wat it is Alicia keys wasn't friend wit his wife so its not her fault if he left she didn't take her man unless he was ready to go. The marriage had ended a long time ago
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/20/2010 9:28 PM |
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I am a huge Alicia Keys fan, but I have to comment on this. I do not agree with Alicia's or Swizz's actions at all. Speaking as someone who has been stepped out on, I can sympathize with Mashonda and what she is going through. However, I do agree that more than Alicia, it was Swizzy's responsibility to respect his marriage. Not Alicia. If he wasn't happy within his marriage, he was going to cheat regardless. If it wasn't Alicia, it would have been someone else. I do wish them the best in their relationship, but the saying does hold true that, "the way that you get a man, will be the same way that you lose him".
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/21/2010 3:19 PM |
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LOL okay, first of all AK shouldn't have been with him until he was tottaly divorced, but let's be real. AK wasn't the one who cheated it was SwiZZ. And what the hell was she talking about with the movie references? Hello, they are movies not real life. And she contradicts herself by first saying that she not putting it all on the women, then procedes to go into detail about why she thinks its all the women's fault.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/22/2010 6:40 PM |
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You are right!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/25/2010 2:52 PM |
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/26/2010 2:22 PM |
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Are you serious? get your facts straight! they were in the process of the divorce she did not break them up.Swift wasn't even living with Mashonda at the time. They separated in 07 papers were filed in 08. Divorce don't happen over night when they'res lots of money and young children and both parties can't reach an agreement. What you are saying in theory is correct but it doesn't apply here. Please get the facts before you speak publicly
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/28/2010 7:16 PM |
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All you all need to get with the program. No one can be "taken" from someone unless they want to be. The truth is- that marriage was in trouble for a long time. Their was an article written in a black magazine a year a so ago (I can't remember the name) about them having marriage problems and Mashonda was thinking of filing for divorce back then. She had stated she didn't think he really loved her even back then and if you think about it, I think she was right. You can tell he still doesn't love her except that she is the mother of his kids. He probably feels its time to be loved in other ways-we all need love too. She and he just are not soul mates. Let's just call it like it is and get on with life as it is. Don't make Alicia the scape goat. She was just at the wrong place at the wrong time. God bless them and their soon to be child.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/29/2010 2:25 PM |
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All I have to say is a baby is on the way now and I hope the environment for it is a positive one. Both are at fault. Rather Swizz was married but separated it still makes it wrong but as an artist I do not dislike her for the serious sin and mistake she made. I just focus on her and her music she brings. It's her life. A sin is a sin is a sin. No matter if it's a small lie.. like we all do or something else. None of us are perfect and none of us have the right to judge. Unfortunately, people especially when separated sleep with other people as if separated means single. Doesn't make it okay but it happens ALL the time! These two just happended to fall in love and actually get married after all the drama. I'm sure that A Keys wasn't the first women since Swizz got married that he had relations. The other just went under the radar because they're not famous.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/29/2010 2:33 PM |
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All I have to say is a baby is on the way now and I hope the environment for it is a positive one. Both are at fault. Rather Swizz was married but separated it still makes it wrong but as an artist I do not dislike her for the serious sin and mistake she made. I just focus on her and her music she brings. It's her life. A sin is a sin is a sin. No matter if it's a small lie.. like we all do or something else. None of us are perfect and none of us have the right to judge. Unfortunately, people especially when separated sleep with other people as if separated means single. Doesn't make it okay but it happens ALL the time! These two just happended to fall in love and actually get married after all the drama. I'm sure that A Keys wasn't the first women since Swizz got married that he had relations. The other just went under the radar because they're not famous.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/29/2010 9:27 PM |
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 9:00 AM |
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I agree with this young lady alicia keys is a home wrecker.I've been there done that taking all kinds of abuse from my husband because he was weak behind @#$%! IS WRONGE and HE IS @#$%! world makes wronge right and right @#$%! is Swiss saying to his son?He's no example at all as far as being a good man and @#$%! don't make a man .Why do women want what other women have .Get your own .Believe me it will all come back on you a 100 fold ladies and @#$%! pain it causes is unbarable .Thank God I had the strenght to stop my pain and divorce his @#$%! he's hurting and none of those women are around showering him with what ever they was showering him @#$%! we'll all see how it goes in a little while.I can't say best @#$%! his ex and children are well and someday be happy again.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 1:25 PM |
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Homewrecker no more of your music for me.....
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 1:27 PM |
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Homewrecker no more of your music for me.....
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 1:48 PM |
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I've been an AK fan for a lot of years but celebrity aside & human hat on, she & swizz are adulterers. He cheated on his wife. AK knew he was married with child & continued anyway. There really are no excuses. They are going to be accountable one way or the other. There's no ceremony or cleansing ritual that is going to wipe that away. I think Mashonda handled the situation with dignity and as she should have. ALL marriages are not perfect, it takes work & committment everyday. For those that have never been married before or witnessed a successful marriage first hand, you really can't understand the dynamics of marriage so we need to forgive the ignorance. Its not the same as cohabitation. There are legal aspects & basically a contract or covanent involved that becomes sealed before God. When He says no man shall put asunder...He means it. Alicia & Swizz will have to answer for that...if not in this life...then the hereafter. It's not a joke.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 1:50 PM |
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I've been an AK fan for a lot of years but celebrity aside & human hat on, she & swizz are adulterers. He cheated on his wife. AK knew he was married with child & continued anyway. There really are no excuses. They are going to be accountable one way or the other. There's no ceremony or cleansing ritual that is going to wipe that away. I think Mashonda handled the situation with dignity and as she should have. ALL marriages are not perfect, it takes work & committment everyday. For those that have never been married before or witnessed a successful marriage first hand, you really can't understand the dynamics of marriage so we need to forgive the ignorance. Its not the same as cohabitation. There are legal aspects & basically a contract or covanent involved that becomes sealed before God. When He says no man shall put asunder...He means it. Alicia & Swizz will have to answer for that...if not in this life...then the hereafter. It's not a joke.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 1:59 PM |
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I do agree that what comes around, goes around. But i also believe taht it takes two to tango. They are both responsible for the break up of swizz marraige. But the man was deamed by god to be the head of his house, of woman and domenion over all of fowl and beast, plus he was more responsible because of his nature of having many woman ie: baby mom's and HE took the vow of marraige. Of course i am very disappointed in Ms. Keys, because she said that a man should know a womans worth. And by her allowing herself to become involved with a married man regardles if it was over in other regards or not. She did not make him honor her worth, instead, he lowered her worth. So even if she "married him" before the baby arrived, it was cotrived, pressure filled and coersed, by who....i dont know. I want to wish her well. But as my mom said.... a leopard will never change his spots. And she knew his character as soon as he came at her. She could have done better, and i really dont believe he is worthy of her... in time she will see this too. And she will not have to wait that long, his other marraige didn't last very long either!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 2:13 PM |
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I don't care how you try to dress this one up but Alicia Keys is a straight up homewrecking whore!! There's no getting around that fact because, she is responsible for her actions period. Yes Swizz was the one that took the vows and he is the one that owed his wife Mashonda an explanation as to why he is choosing to step outside of their marriage. But Alicia Keys is just as guilty, she should respect herself more than that. You let a married man run game on you and get you to abandon any type of morals that you have. You chose to date a married man that had a small child. What kind of woman are you. Now that you're married and have a baby on the way you will one day realize exactly what you put Mashonda through when Swizz decided to cheat on you with the next hot little thing that comes along, and oh yes he will do it to you baby its just a matter of time because a man like that is cold and calculated and he has no soul, he will cheat on you Alicia its in his nature and that's something that you can't change.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 2:20 PM |
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Alicia Keys I only have one word for you: KARMA!!!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 2:35 PM |
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OMG Some of all are mmm mmm mmm SMH... Don't nobody know the truth behind them how long they was dating and if he was married or not... Ya'll act like yall perfect and who are you to judge???? I can't when mfs starting acting like they are so christian and holy when you are just and woring as she is... I will comtinue to support her and her music no matter what she does with HER LIFE... Everybody sins so why make it look like what she done is worst?? No sin is greater than the next...
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 2:36 PM |
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OMG Some of all are mmm mmm mmm SMH... Don't nobody know the truth behind them how long they was dating and if he was married or not... Ya'll act like yall perfect and who are you to judge???? I can't when mfs starting acting like they are so christian and holy when you are just and woring as she is... I will comtinue to support her and her music no matter what she does with HER LIFE... Everybody sins so why make it look like what she done is worst?? No sin is greater than the next...
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 2:38 PM |
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OMG Some of all are mmm mmm mmm SMH... Don't nobody know the truth behind them how long they was dating and if he was married or not... Ya'll act like yall perfect and who are you to judge???? I can't when mfs starting acting like they are so christian and holy when you are just and woring as she is... I will comtinue to support her and her music no matter what she does with HER LIFE... Everybody sins so why make it look like what she done is worst?? No sin is greater than the next...
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 2:49 PM |
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I slightly agree...however; both Alicia and Swizz are responsible, not just a women. They BOTH know right from wrong. I'm pretty sure their parents instilled in them some values. It's also not a Light skin vs Dark skin thing...that's absurb. When you get to the heart of it, whether the papers were signed or not I believe it's wrong. What type of message are you sending to your children...it's okay to "possible" have an affair...it's okay to end your marriage and the next day be seen with another man or women...come on...we are better than that. I hope we all can be better than that.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 3:18 PM |
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It takes two to tango, as far as I'm concerned he had his mind made up all along. He is the married one, not her. Take it up with him not her. Not her fault that he didn't want his ex wife anymore.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 3:26 PM |
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I love the video.... I completely agree. However, im not giving alicia a pass, in fact i refuse to support anything she does: CD's, concerts, etc. It's a shame too, because she is so talented. When she came on the global sceene years ago, I respected her becuase she showed women true beauty thru her lyrics, talent and appearance... now she's girating on the stage like every other black female performer (ie beyounce and ciara) No disrespect, however; I thought alica represented intelect, beauty and respect.... I was wrong. I was dead wrong.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 3:39 PM |
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 3:52 PM |
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Get over it. There was no relationship between Swizz and whats her name. We women need to look at our behavior while in a relationship and understand that as we get older we change and men just don't want to deal with the bull..same immature temperment. Black sistas, lets stop being angry and not because we are black, we have to be uncouth, lets refine ourselves.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 3:58 PM |
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Do we really know the whole story? How does this young lady know what happened behind closed doors? Is she a friend? Is she a relative? Was she the Nanny? They were both wrong if it went down they way the RUMORS are saying. Alicia is not without Sin. We are all of a Sin nature and will now and again mess up. Who are we to judge. She has to answer to GOD by herself. Good dialogue though.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 4:06 PM |
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I agree with the comment about Alicia being a homewrecker and it so refreshing to know that there are still some beautiful intelligent black girls out there that see the distaste and responsibility there is in such an act.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 4:21 PM |
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oh shutup dont hate on alicia because she got her a man .. so what if swizz left his other wife for alicia... whats done is done so get over it.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 5:03 PM |
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he hates her so she need to move on and stop making herself look desperate by hating on a famous super singer. i can see the studio time they spend obviously they fell inlove and only time will tell. u ugly little girl
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 5:35 PM |
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 7:45 PM |
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It is a matter of respect...woman to woman respect. NEVER, EVER step into another woman's marriage or relationship. It an involved man steps to you, tell him to handle his business, and when it's officially over, come see me. It does not matter that he is separated, he is STILL married. Do unto other....your happiness can't be built on another person's pain. She should have respected Mashonda as a sister who was in the midst of turmoil, and stepped away. It's not always what you do, but how you do it.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 8:48 PM |
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WHO REALLY KNOWS WHAT WENT DOWN. THERE IS 2 SIDES TO A @#$%! A MAN DOESN'T LIVE IN THE SAME HOUSE FOR OVER A YEAR WHAT EVER YOU HAD IS DONE. SINCE NO ONE KNOWS THE TRUE STORY WE SHOULDN'T HAVE ANYTHING TO SAY. HIS EX-WIFE CLEARLY SAID IN 09 KEYS WASN'T THE CAUSE OF THE BREAK UP HE WAS ALREADY OUT THE @#$%! THE DIVORCE IS READY TO BE SIGN YOU SCREAMING " HOME WRECKER"
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 9:12 PM |
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HE WHO IS WITHOUT SIN CAT THE 1ST STONE??????
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 9:18 PM |
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WHAT GOES AROUND COME BACK AROUND IF HE LEFT WIFEY N HIS BABY 4 HER HE GNE LEAVE HER N THAT BABY 4 SOME 1 ELSE ITS KUMMIN-SIT BACK N WATCH O N MASHONDA DID NUTHIN BUT A FAVOR FOR U FIND U SUM1 THATS GNE MAKE U HAPPY GURL
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/2/2010 9:47 PM |
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Who are we to say what's right or what's wrong? I can only speak for myself and I would never date a man that was married/ getting a divorce. Until those papers are finalized he would have nothing to say to me. Men are sneaky and some are just down right DOGS, but it all on our judgement as women. Set the standard, because she couldn't say that he was going to marry her for sure until it happened.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/3/2010 2:41 AM |
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yo shut up!!!!what do you know about it???????you are not even making sense
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/3/2010 2:50 AM |
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homegirl get a life..obviously you dont have a man, that's why you are so involved in these people @#$%!!and who are you anyway?If he wanted mashonda he would be with her, she probably as boring as you are!!!!get some business, and leave other people @#$%! alone
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/3/2010 4:33 AM |
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I thik everybody in these people biz just because they are celebrities. This @#$%! aint nothing new. No on knows the facts but the parties involved. Swizz and Mashond relationship could have well been over a long time ago. And as far as the chic in the video please. Just because someone is on Alicia's side don't mean thy will mess with a married man so get it right. Im sure the men that are married dont tell the other woman they are married half the time anyway, it's just found out. And yes there are some skanks that mess w/ men and dont care if they are married but them are the hoes. The ones that know and dont care, that's a homewrecker. No AK is no homewrecker. Yall @#$%!es need to shut up and mind ya biz. Get a @#$%! life people Alica and Swizz is married now and will go on with their lives not giving a @#$%! about yours. So move on @#$%!es.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/3/2010 4:50 AM |
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I feel like ever one who on AK need to get off of her. We dont know what happen ever one just listen to the media get out her business. Hell Mashonda must wasnt doing something right beats wanted out the marriage. I just feel like dont judge AK until you know the real story.#1 Fan here
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/3/2010 3:12 PM |
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just shut up--------jealous
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/3/2010 3:12 PM |
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just shut up--------jealous
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/3/2010 3:12 PM |
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just shut up--------jealous
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/3/2010 5:58 PM |
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ALICIA KEYS is a homewrecker period end of story if the b**** is alredy 6 months pregnant and the papers was just recently signed you do the fuc**** math. they been fuc**** around she is no saint. She is flesh and blood like everybody else no mateer how muck money she got. She is sneaky and disgusting and very much stupid she said it her self in her song "What goes around comes around What goes up must come down"Karma did not skip her ass it is yet to come back around to her while she up there singing about it but WARNING COMES BEFORE DISTRUCTION and her song was her own warning LOL STUPID WOMAN AK YOU ARE A STUPID WOMAN
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/3/2010 7:34 PM |
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u know wha ya leave alicia alone she aint no homewrecker. @#$%! all ya @#$%!es for sellin ma gurl out cuz ya da same ones still jamming to her albums! and dats real!!!!!!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/3/2010 7:35 PM |
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u know wha ya leave alicia alone she aint no homewrecker. @#$%! all ya @#$%!es for sellin ma gurl out cuz ya da same ones still jamming to her albums! and dats real!!!!!!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/3/2010 7:36 PM |
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u know wha ya leave alicia alone she aint no homewrecker. @#$%! all ya @#$%!es for sellin ma gurl out cuz ya da same ones still jamming to her albums! and dats real!!!!!!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/3/2010 10:47 PM |
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Whats goes around comes around! One thing she is right, bottom line...Most women are just plain stupid! Women can control everything, but she is just too stupid and let her (feelings) get in the way! Not her common sense, but her feelings!! Women you all really need to wake up!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/3/2010 11:33 PM |
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WELL SAID, my SISTER! WELL SAID, Finally someone can get on the internet and talk with some sense. You are absolutely correct in your perspective and reasoning. Unfortunately, half of the people on the internet cannot keep up. Good job!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/3/2010 11:54 PM |
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I wanna start off by saying regardless of this situation Alicia Keys is a very talented person & I love her music. I'm not going to call her out of her name because we all make mistakes & none of us are sin-free. So first off, I think people should work @ their marriages & not use divorce as a copout. Secondly, it has nothing to do w/light skin vs dark skin...right is right and wrong is wrong. Everyone in this situation is wrong. Swiss is the one married so yes, he took the vows & he should have honored them. Alicia knew he was still LEGALLY married so they are BOTH to blame. If she met him before the divorce was finalized they should have held off on the sex & relationship period. I agree that some are not blaming Keys bc she is famous & there is some bias, but God gave women something that makes men lose their minds...Vajayjay ppl! Put yourself in Mashonda's shoes.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/4/2010 12:13 AM |
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I agree with a few things on here...so let me break it down...
This is nobody's business but Swiss and AK. If u think Im wrong about that....lets delve into all the sh*t each and every one of us has done since we started having sex/boyfriend/girlfriends or got married. U cant put people on blast cuz we all got dirty laundry. U tell me the world all the stuff u did FIRST...b4 u cast any stones....WE ARE ALL SINNERS...nobody can judge ur mistakes...so why u judging others...
The comment about I feel sorry for the kids...MY AZZ....that kid is taken care of. Better than most, do a search...parents are getting along. That kid will receive the love necessary to b a good seed. Separation happens and all too often. Great that they get along. Look the the truth here....not thru "I feel ur pain girl eyes" They both love their son.
Another brotha said it right...women aint taken care of men anymore. They think they got vows(paper), kid and a house and they set. I TOTALLY agree. My wife treated me like crap. No holding, huggin, cuddling walks or talks. Then no fathers day gift or bday gift..8 years running. I kept expressing my unhappiness. Asked for a divorce...nah u cant leave u got kids... was the response. Let me tell u...yall women have lost u sense of idealology, love and family.
A brotha only wants tru love, companionship and family. This crap yall bringing now is COMPLETELY unacceptable! You dont know urselves, you watch others to see how to act, u read all these books and magazines...OPRAH, TD Jakes.....to NO end..
But the only real love u need is laying next to u. Trying to love u and be THAT DUDE for u. turn ur azz over an talk to him. Find out what he likes and if he is HAPPY with u. If u know he aint DO SOMETHING!!!
I have one question......and this will answer all of this BS about people hating and all up in Swiss and AK business....... when ur man asks u to do something special for him u know oral...an*l, some booty shakin, or just something freaky....HOW MANY of u will do it after say 2 or 3 years of marriage? I hear crickets.... Yall ruining the few cats who are down for marriage and being faithful. I WAS one of them.... If u know ur man aint happy and u know u aint doin ur part....LET HIM GO. So u wont be sitting here bloggin and saying all this BS that u saying now. If u not right for the job....u will get fired. PLAIN AND SIMPLE. Black men live to be 50-70. Give him all the love and happiness he can stand while he is here. If he dont return it leave his azz. There is someone 4 u who will respect the love u bringing. IT WORKS BOTH WAYS. PEACE
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/4/2010 12:22 AM |
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I agree with a few things on here...so let me break it down...
This is nobody's business but Swiss and AK. If u think Im wrong about that....lets delve into all the sh*t each and every one of us has done since we started having sex/boyfriend/girlfriends or got married. U cant put people on blast cuz we all got dirty laundry. U tell me the world all the stuff u did FIRST...b4 u cast any stones....WE ARE ALL SINNERS...nobody can judge ur mistakes...so why u judging others...
The comment about I feel sorry for the kids...MY AZZ....that kid is taken care of. Better than most, do a search...parents are getting along. That kid will receive the love necessary to b a good seed. Separation happens and all too often. Great that they get along. Look the the truth here....not thru "I feel ur pain girl eyes" They both love their son.
Another brotha said it right...women aint taken care of men anymore. They think they got vows(paper), kid and a house and they set. I TOTALLY agree. My wife treated me like crap. No holding, huggin, cuddling walks or talks. Then no fathers day gift or bday gift..8 years running. I kept expressing my unhappiness. Asked for a divorce...nah u cant leave u got kids... was the response. Let me tell u...yall women have lost u sense of idealology, love and family.
A brotha only wants tru love, companionship and family. This crap yall bringing now is COMPLETELY unacceptable! You dont know urselves, you watch others to see how to act, u read all these books and magazines...OPRAH, TD Jakes.....to NO end..
But the only real love u need is laying next to u. Trying to love u and be THAT DUDE for u. turn ur azz over an talk to him. Find out what he likes and if he is HAPPY with u. If u know he aint DO SOMETHING!!!
I have one question......and this will answer all of this BS about people hating and all up in Swiss and AK business....... when ur man asks u to do something special for him u know oral...an*l, some booty shakin, or just something freaky....HOW MANY of u will do it after say 2 or 3 years of marriage? I hear crickets.... Yall ruining the few cats who are down for marriage and being faithful. I WAS one of them.... If u know ur man aint happy and u know u aint doin ur part....LET HIM GO. So u wont be sitting here bloggin and saying all this BS that u saying now. If u not right for the job....u will get fired. PLAIN AND SIMPLE. Black men live to be 50-70. Give him all the love and happiness he can stand while he is here. If he dont return it leave his azz. There is someone 4 u who will respect the love u bringing. IT WORKS BOTH WAYS. PEACE
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/4/2010 5:11 AM |
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Was you in the situation was u there do you know what leads to a divorce do u know how long it takes to finalize one did you get all 3 sides of the stry no u falling on the drama banwagon and taking mashonda side and all she doing is driving that pity me i'm bitter that my man left me role while pushing fr more money U need to understand if Swiss took the victim role and was all in the public tellng how f*cked up she was it would be different but he ain't and alicia ain't they marrie having a baby get over it it's done it happened and it ain't ur place to judge anybody nw if u were actually there then u can have an opinion but since u wasn't SHUT UP SIT DOWN AND GET A LIFE
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/4/2010 9:54 AM |
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while the divorce was just finalized this year we still do not have all the facts was he still with the Ex how long were they separated to say that Alicia Keys caused the breakup or divorce is out of line before we judge we need to have all the facts
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/6/2010 2:32 PM |
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AND WHAT'S YOUR STORY, STONE THROWERS!!! HE WHO HAS NO DIRT, PLEASE THROW THE FIRST STONE. I'M SURE ALL WHO HAS A NEGATIVE WORD ABOUT ALICIA KEYS, GOT YOUR OWN DIRT, SKELETONS OR WHATEVER...CHECK YOUR SELF, GET YOU SOME BUSINESS AND MAKE SOMETHING OF YOURSELVES,BESIDES BEING KNOWN AS GOSSIPERS. TALK WE YOU KNOW ABOUT YOUR OWN BUSINESS AND STAY THE **** OUT OF SOMEONE ELSES!!!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/6/2010 7:44 PM |
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you still ugly and Alicia still got the man so go get a @#$%!ing perm before i take yo @#$%! ya digg. ask me im ready
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/7/2010 3:53 PM |
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I understand fully what this chick is @#$%! saying as a man i know we are weak for women bot we can only go as for as that woman allows.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/17/2010 12:14 PM |
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Mind your business. If a marriage is over then it happened before the new person entered.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/17/2010 7:56 PM |
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/19/2010 1:30 PM |
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alicia is a homewreaker she's not a ROLE MODEL AND SHE WILL HAVE HER DAY . JUST LIKE HE SAID HIS WIFE BE GOING THROUGH HIS PHONE .THE QUESTION IS WHAT DID SWISS DO TO MAKE HIS WIFE NOT TRUST HIM "SLEEP WITH ALICIA"and no telling how many other. what goes around comes around. it really makes alicia look bad when sheMADE thAT SONG. aLICIA NEED TO THINK HE BEEN WITH HIS WIFE 10 HYEARS SO ALICIA YIU HAVE KNOW GURANTEES YOU GET MY DRIFT. YOU WILL BE CHEATED ON MORE BECAUSE YOU GUYS WONT HAVE THAT TIME TOGETHER THAT HE HAD WITH HIS WIFE "YOU WILL BE TOO BUSY"
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/24/2010 11:06 AM |
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The crazy thing is that people seem to forget the we are human and we do have emotions.Everyone seem to see the negativity of a situation without really knowing what exactly went down. Who is really wrong? When man approaches a woman and she is in need of someone, the man often paints a picture a really good one that the previous relationship is over, we have to remember that the woman is the weaker vessel which gives a perfect excuse for her actions often, The man was here first and he is the dominate one so what happens when the man uses his power to mentally over power the woman? WE also seem to forget that hundreds of years ago a man was allowed to have more than one wife if he could provide for them all and the women had to accept each other. Still on other countries this is still valid and you do not see those women hating and trying to bash each other, after all i believe when this is all over with he will have to go back home to see his child and if he is feeling weak and she is vulnerable who is going to know what is going to happen we are not there to see!!Suddnely the 2 women begin to accept eachother because the man is poweful and they both need what it is he has so they both has to accept eachother and he will make them and they will and then he will have both women and children This is a mans world and anyone who forgets that is crazy,
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/24/2010 11:39 AM |
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who are we to judge them? there's different sides to this incident the wife's side, swizz side, alicia side, and then there's the truth. which one u believe is up to u. everyone has their own assumptions. But whatever the situation is its their business so negative or positive feedback is not needed. and u shouldnt let their personal situations reflect on how u feel about them. im not judging im just saying. im not judging. because some of u may jave done the same thing but werent married. so that would make u a homewrecker as well
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/24/2010 1:33 PM |
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Ok ALL.....As Far As The Situation When It Comes To Men And Women Who Find Themselves In A situation Like This, I Agree With Some Of What Is Said In This Video. If This Were My relationship I Would Never Go 'After' The Woman That Is Having An Affair With My Husband Because The Fact Is He Knows That he HAs An Obligation To Me And Our Marriage. He's The One That Took Vows With Me Not Her. With That Being Said I Also Have To Agree As She Said Woman Need To Find The Morals That They Have Seemed To Lost Somewhere. If He's Married....Send His Ass Home to His Wife, Until That Is Over Only Than Should You Allow Him To Pursue Something With You, These Days Woman Don't Have Any morals Or Self Respect. This Is Also The Reason That men Degrade Woman Like They Do, Refer To Them As @#$%!es And Hoes..... Woman Stop Setting Yourself Up. Change Starts With Us. If We Dont Give A Stray Dog A Place To Roam They Will Start Taking Their Asses Back To The Woman They Have At Home. Remember The Same Way You Get A Man...The Same Way You Will Lose Him....Believe That.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/28/2010 11:13 AM |
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Don't mistake the union between man and women and what God's purpose was for creating them. The purpose married couples, men, and women fail to understand is that God is calling us back to him. We were never meant to handle the situations we face on our on. Why do you think God created prayer? Adam walked and talked with God daily. Adam knew His heart and His mind, His thoughts and was guided by God. That process was to continue when God saw that "it was not good for man to be alone" So, he created a companion for Adam. Read Gods word. Married couples will face adversity, there is no doubt in that. But as a man (Adam), we are to bring our situations to God using His word to guide us and that is the problem with us. We think we can take care of every situation on our own and we can't. We should be praying daily, hourly, every minute for Him to guide us for His sake and not for our own benefit. "Where sin abounds, grace abound more".
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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8/29/2010 4:25 PM |
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Women will stay on a ship even if they are drowning. A man gets on a life boat and gets to dry land and safety.
They marriage was a mess. She is mad because he finally got up and left. Mashondand and Swizz broke up their own home.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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9/10/2010 1:11 PM |
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Every person has the right to their own opinion. Every opinion is the reflection of the person's character. So there's really no sense arguing back and forth just know where a person @#$%! is the dumbest @#$%! I heard is someone saying that people are hating on Ms. Keys because of light skinned vs dark skinned situation. Please! I am a dark skinned female that have never felt inferior to no white, nor light skinned woman. Trust me although society put these women on pestals in my personal space I've learned its about preference and I've never lacked attention. And to the ones that excuse this because the man may have not been happy. That's a part of marriage. You committed to work through the bad times as well as appreciate the good.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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9/13/2010 3:00 PM |
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True!
@#$%!qgrinder.com NYC free classifieds listings real estate, jobs & personals & more!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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9/15/2010 9:00 PM |
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You real as f... Sista!!!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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9/16/2010 11:27 PM |
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Save it! There is more women in the world then men...So its easy..Yawn
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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10/3/2010 3:47 PM |
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you can call it what you want but alicia keys aint mess with him when they was married so dont hate on her
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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10/13/2010 4:04 PM |
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I've lost respect for Ak as a person, but I still enjoy her music.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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10/17/2010 7:47 PM |
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Broad plz. If they're seperated then the relationship is over. It's obvious that there was no way to reconcil, or else it would've been done. Dont get me wrong im not making excuses for anyone. but who r u ppl to judge what the next couple go through. Paper or not a person does whatever they want.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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10/17/2010 10:23 PM |
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a@#$%!@#$%!@#$%!@#$%!w shut the @#$%! up!!!!! actin like ppl havent done this @#$%! be4 ppl are not perfect! she couldnt do no more then he allow her too! and @#$%! stop talkin about a movie, its real life ya'll stupid ass ppl tryin 2 act like ya'll are perfect just stfu about it already! ugh dont ya'll have a @#$%!in life stop worryin about her damn!!! @#$%! OFF!!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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10/17/2010 10:25 PM |
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a@#$%!@#$%!@#$%!@#$%!w shut the @#$%! up!!!!! actin like ppl havent done this @#$%! be4 ppl are not perfect! she couldnt do no more then he allow her too! and @#$%! stop talkin about a movie, its real life ya'll stupid ass ppl tryin 2 act like ya'll are perfect just stfu about it already! ugh dont ya'll have a @#$%!in life stop worryin about her damn!!! @#$%! OFF!!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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10/18/2010 1:39 PM |
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I am not the one to judge them, BUT God hates a divorce!!! According to God's word they commited adultry. If his ex wife didnt cheat on him and he left her and started a new relationship. That is considered ADULTRY in God's eyes. If I was in their shoes I would REPENT if they have not already. I didnt write the law on marriage Im just stating it.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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10/18/2010 1:44 PM |
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You people ought to be ashamed of yourselves with these comments. If you believe in the TRUE God you should know better about adultry. Some of you are gonna bust HELL wide open for sure. Thats why black people are in the shape we are in now bcs you people do not take marriage seriously. We shouldnt be having sex before marriage anyway..thats our number 1 problem in the 1st place. Dust the dirt off your Bible and read it for a change.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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10/18/2010 1:49 PM |
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Not only read the Bible, APPLY it in your lives. Whats the purpose of giving thanks to God and going to Church if you dont even try to live by God's standards. Bunch of hypocrits...im done.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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10/18/2010 5:07 PM |
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My dear, people who file for seperations, believe it or not actually remain seperated. I think you might have some insecurities. And, no doubt, you've been cheated on by a dude you thought had "Character." Swizz will probably do the same to Alicia, and then what? Will you blame the next trick the way you've blamed Alicia? Am I the only one who believes in love anymore? This stuff happens. People fall out of love. Dear, I think you need to focus on your insecurities and lack of self-esteem rather than on what other grown folks do. Educated youself. Elevate youself from this kind of garbage. Celebrity gossip is for people with the mindset of cows. People who delve in other people's business often times are very lonely and lacking in their lives. You're an attractive woman. There's someone out there for you, but when you talk like this you come off ignorant.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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10/18/2010 6:26 PM |
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I Agree That Alicia Keys Is A Homerecker... And I Feel Swiss Beatz Was Less Then A Man To Leave Your Family For A Ole Weak Playedout Artist... Not Only Did She Reck This Mans Family She Recked That Mans Life, Got Pregnant To try To Keep Him, The Only Reason He Married Her Stanky Slut Butt Was Because Of The Baby Which Could Be Any Mans Baby... If She Messed With A Married Man Whos To Say What Else Low Things She Might Do Besides Get High On Power And Weed... Im Never Buying Her Cd's Again Shes A Homerecker... And Besides At The End Of The Day In Gods Eyes You Dont Count As A Wife... His First Wife Will Always Be Seen In Gods Eyes As His Wife..
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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10/31/2010 9:54 AM |
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You don't know what you are talking about, you just act like you do and like you're so righteous. You were not there, none of us was. It is none of our business. You do not know whose fault it was. Just because he ended up with AK does not mean this was all her fault. He seems to have had many other judgement errors along the way. How do you know his ex wasn't doing the same thing? How do you know the marriage was not how they or she wanted it? How do you know he didn't just get tired of all that? Somehting must have been wrong or he wouldn't have so many other kids and who knows how many affairs. Looks like he should have left her long ago. We don't know. But to say it's Alicia's fault is just ridiculous with everything else everyone knows and Mashonda told was going on. Seems to me she got caught up in something and couldn't get out of it but Mashonda took it to the max and got what she wanted from it. No, she wasn't even mad at his other affairs or kids mama's, she had nothing to gain from running them in the ground- no one cared. But this one could get her what she wanted, fame and money. Of course at the expense of her child knowing or hearing all the lies and filth at some point.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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11/22/2010 12:21 PM |
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Why be unhappy and stay in the relationship. Sorry but if Swizz found him a new lady then let em be and vice versa. We only got a few more years on this earth. Be happy now and don't hold on to anger. Life is way to short. Go find yourself a new man! Hope the kids don't get screwed up in the drama which unfortunatley looks like they will be...Oh well! That means we got more jobs for the psychiatrist and psychologist to deal with their issues when the kids get older...
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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12/6/2010 2:19 PM |
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The truth today is like aids nobody wants any parts of it and thoes who have it wish they were ignorant....cus you are ALONE!!!!!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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12/30/2010 2:30 AM |
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honestly yall need oo2 stfu because alicia keys is NOT a homewrecker. if swizz was happy with mashonda then they wuddnt have qot ah divorce. like @#$%![mashonda] qet over yourself like swizz qot over you. yall all hatinq on ALICIA KEYS cuhs she DOING better then yall ever would. so STFU leave [alicia keys] alonee !
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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3/15/2011 11:48 AM |
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I'll say that the two parties at fault here are most certainly both Alicia and Swizz beatz! Regardless of the contrary beliefs, Swizz beatz was not divorced and there is a difference between being divorced and breaking off a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship! Alicia and Swizz are the individuals that have to suffer the consequences of their actions! If you don't want to be in the marriage any longer, then he just have divorced in 2008 prior to when he is said to have begun his relationship with Keys...end of story!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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3/24/2011 2:25 AM |
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4/15/2011 7:55 PM |
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WOW THAT WAS REAL WOW EVERYONE SEEMS TO 4GET THAT BEATZ HAD A BABY BY ANOTHER SINGER IN THE UK 2 MONTHS BEFORE HE FINAZILED HIS DIVORCE WITH MASHONDA AND YES AK IS WRONG NOT BECAUSE SHE SO CALLED BROKE UP AN HOME BUT BECAUSE AS AREAL WOMAN YOU TELL THE MAN SHOW ME THE PAPERS FIRST BUT HE HAD ALREADY CHEATED THE HOME WAS OVER HE WAS GETTING DOWN UNPROTECED WITH ALOT OF WOMAN AK SHOULD OF THOUGHT ABOUT THAT BUT HEY HE DON'T CARE IF HE GOT THE MONEY TO PAY THEM OFF OH WELL ONLY GOD CAN AND WILL JUDGE ALL OF THEM HE THROW THE @#$%! AROUND LIKE LIL WAYNE LOL BUT IT WASN'T AK PROBLEM TO FIX THIER MARRIAGE BUT SWIZZ AND MASHONDA SHE MAYBE TRIED BUT HE WAS DONE THE BM IN THE UK BROKE THE HOME AK JUST GAVE HIM A NEW ONE BUT LIKE AK SAYS KARMA WHAT GOES UP MUST COME DOWN I LOVED AK NOT KNOW BUT THAT IS ONLY BECAUSE IAM A WIFE HAPPILY WIFE MY HUSBAND OF 11 YEARS NEVA BROKE OUR VOWS TO GOD NEVA WE HAD PROBLEMS BUT PRAYED THROUGH THEM AK WAS BEING MESSY THROUGH ALL THIS SO WAS SWIZZ AND MASHONDA JUST SOME USEFUL INFO TO JUDGE HATERS In 2000, his first son was born Prince Nasir (born 2000) from a previous relationship. In 2004, he married R&B singer Mashonda Tifrere, together they have one child, Kassem Dean Jr. (born 2007). In April 2008, they announced their plans to divorce after four years of marriage. In May 2008 UK singer and producer Jahna Sebastian gave birth to a daughter Nicole, whom Swizz Beatz fathered.[26] Rumors have since surfaced online suggesting singer Alicia Keys was involved in the break-up,[27] but Swizz has since then stated this is not true.[28] In May 2009, Swizz Beatz admitted to having a relationship with Alicia Keys. He explained that he's kept their relationship under wraps because he did not want to upset Mashonda and says that what he and Keys have is "so precious."[29] Beatz' divorce from Mashonda was finalized on May 7, 2010.[30][31] In May 2010 Beatz confirmed he was engaged to Alicia Keys, and that she was pregnant with Beatz' fourth, and her first child.[32] During the time of the 2010 FIFA World Cup, the couple took part of a union and had the unborn child blessed in a Zulu ceremony, which took place in the Illovo suburb of South Africa.[33] Keys and Swizz Beatz held a wedding celebration on the French island of Corsica on July 31, 2010.[34] Alicia Keys gave birth to their son, Egypt Daoud Ibarr Dean, on October 14, 2010.[35][36]
Swizz Beatz not only collects paintings but also paints on his own free time. He donates the money he earns from his paintings to the Children's Cancer & Blood Foundation, he also donates to the Cystic Fibrosis Trust.[37]
Looks like the issues surrounding this “love triangle” between Swizz Beatz, his soon-to-be ex wife (and mother of his child) Mashonda and his new woman, Alicia Keys, have reared their ugly head again! Though Beatz and Keys (that sounds funny together, haha!) have yet to publicly announce that they’re knocking boots, anybody who follows either of the two know what’s going down behind closed doors. They’re always at events together, send mushy messages to each other on Twitter and have even been spotted by the paparazzi enjoying an intimate evening.
Well now Mashonda’s fed up with the whole situation and has decided to put A. Keys on front street for allegedly assisting in the failure of her 5-year marriage. Here’s a message she sent to Alicia the other day on Twitter.
After having a great evening with my son and enjoying some fun twit chat, I decided to sign off and get some work done. However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check @aliciakeys twit page. I’ve never reached out to her on twitter before. I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation. Not to mention that I’ve reached out to her many times in the beginning of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never succeeded in getting a response. The 1st time I meet AK, my husband introduced us to each other at an event. ( I have no choice but to call him my husband, until he is not anymore) In the messages that I sent to her (AK), I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just had a child. Its been two years and I still have not received a response. What I do receive, is constant displays of selfishness and disconcern to me and my son.
I was a fan of AK’s last album, we were both signed to J Records and I always checked up on her projects. I sang her songs and admired her for creating Superwoman and Karma, I would never deny her, her talent. I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my husband. The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted months later.
Already I can hear some of you saying ” why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something thats broken”. Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary . Call it blind love, whatever. I call it being a devoted wife.. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, thats false. Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a good place as people and as parents. I accept his choices and I am comfortable enough with myself to move on. I am so very blessed in many ways.
My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing their situation. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud with in my truck? I ask myself sometimes.
If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know what you did. You know the role you played and you know how you contributed to the ending of my marriage. You know that I asked you to step back and let me handle my family issues. Issues that you helped to create. Im not saying everything was perfect all the time but no relationship is perfect. We made a vow to God and I believe you should have respected that, as a woman. I know you owe me or my son nothing but I just wish you would’ve handled things more carefully. I’m not judging you, I put you and the whole situation in the hands of God, the Higher Power. Just know that as a woman, I expected so much more from you. I never had intentions on reaching out to you this way but after reading your twits tonight, and the constant disregard, you left me no choice. I feel that after 1 and a half years of you hiding this affair and acting like it doesnt exist, that now is the time to confront it, since you talk so openly about it now
This is not a publicity stunt, I dont have a record coming out. I just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting our issues. There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he knows we don’t have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!
I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what’s real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human. This is not for the “people”, this is for you. Like I said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way. By now, Im sure you want to find a balance in this as well.
I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive. You have no idea how much pain I was caused because of this affair. Its baffling to me that you don’t understand what I might have gone through with this situation. I dont consider myself a victim anymore, Ive learned alot from this! I just ask you to try and be a bit more realistic and delicate to the situation, at least until my divorce is final. I felt me attending the party would have been a starting point for us, since you shook my hand after I offered it, but I suppose I was wrong.
If its so, that you and my husband are meant to be together, then God bless you both and I hope you never have to deal with what I did. I would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you two being together forever is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I’m not going anywhere. Theres a child to be raised.
To answer your tweet, choose smart over spark. Sparks burn everyone, be smart! Its simple actually, just think of the shoe being on the other foot.
Stay blessed and lets work this thing out with respect and dignity.
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4/15/2011 7:55 PM |
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WOW THAT WAS REAL WOW EVERYONE SEEMS TO 4GET THAT BEATZ HAD A BABY BY ANOTHER SINGER IN THE UK 2 MONTHS BEFORE HE FINAZILED HIS DIVORCE WITH MASHONDA AND YES AK IS WRONG NOT BECAUSE SHE SO CALLED BROKE UP AN HOME BUT BECAUSE AS AREAL WOMAN YOU TELL THE MAN SHOW ME THE PAPERS FIRST BUT HE HAD ALREADY CHEATED THE HOME WAS OVER HE WAS GETTING DOWN UNPROTECED WITH ALOT OF WOMAN AK SHOULD OF THOUGHT ABOUT THAT BUT HEY HE DON'T CARE IF HE GOT THE MONEY TO PAY THEM OFF OH WELL ONLY GOD CAN AND WILL JUDGE ALL OF THEM HE THROW THE @#$%! AROUND LIKE LIL WAYNE LOL BUT IT WASN'T AK PROBLEM TO FIX THIER MARRIAGE BUT SWIZZ AND MASHONDA SHE MAYBE TRIED BUT HE WAS DONE THE BM IN THE UK BROKE THE HOME AK JUST GAVE HIM A NEW ONE BUT LIKE AK SAYS KARMA WHAT GOES UP MUST COME DOWN I LOVED AK NOT KNOW BUT THAT IS ONLY BECAUSE IAM A WIFE HAPPILY WIFE MY HUSBAND OF 11 YEARS NEVA BROKE OUR VOWS TO GOD NEVA WE HAD PROBLEMS BUT PRAYED THROUGH THEM AK WAS BEING MESSY THROUGH ALL THIS SO WAS SWIZZ AND MASHONDA JUST SOME USEFUL INFO TO JUDGE HATERS In 2000, his first son was born Prince Nasir (born 2000) from a previous relationship. In 2004, he married R&B singer Mashonda Tifrere, together they have one child, Kassem Dean Jr. (born 2007). In April 2008, they announced their plans to divorce after four years of marriage. In May 2008 UK singer and producer Jahna Sebastian gave birth to a daughter Nicole, whom Swizz Beatz fathered.[26] Rumors have since surfaced online suggesting singer Alicia Keys was involved in the break-up,[27] but Swizz has since then stated this is not true.[28] In May 2009, Swizz Beatz admitted to having a relationship with Alicia Keys. He explained that he's kept their relationship under wraps because he did not want to upset Mashonda and says that what he and Keys have is "so precious."[29] Beatz' divorce from Mashonda was finalized on May 7, 2010.[30][31] In May 2010 Beatz confirmed he was engaged to Alicia Keys, and that she was pregnant with Beatz' fourth, and her first child.[32] During the time of the 2010 FIFA World Cup, the couple took part of a union and had the unborn child blessed in a Zulu ceremony, which took place in the Illovo suburb of South Africa.[33] Keys and Swizz Beatz held a wedding celebration on the French island of Corsica on July 31, 2010.[34] Alicia Keys gave birth to their son, Egypt Daoud Ibarr Dean, on October 14, 2010.[35][36]
Swizz Beatz not only collects paintings but also paints on his own free time. He donates the money he earns from his paintings to the Children's Cancer & Blood Foundation, he also donates to the Cystic Fibrosis Trust.[37]
Looks like the issues surrounding this “love triangle” between Swizz Beatz, his soon-to-be ex wife (and mother of his child) Mashonda and his new woman, Alicia Keys, have reared their ugly head again! Though Beatz and Keys (that sounds funny together, haha!) have yet to publicly announce that they’re knocking boots, anybody who follows either of the two know what’s going down behind closed doors. They’re always at events together, send mushy messages to each other on Twitter and have even been spotted by the paparazzi enjoying an intimate evening.
Well now Mashonda’s fed up with the whole situation and has decided to put A. Keys on front street for allegedly assisting in the failure of her 5-year marriage. Here’s a message she sent to Alicia the other day on Twitter.
After having a great evening with my son and enjoying some fun twit chat, I decided to sign off and get some work done. However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check @aliciakeys twit page. I’ve never reached out to her on twitter before. I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation. Not to mention that I’ve reached out to her many times in the beginning of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never succeeded in getting a response. The 1st time I meet AK, my husband introduced us to each other at an event. ( I have no choice but to call him my husband, until he is not anymore) In the messages that I sent to her (AK), I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just had a child. Its been two years and I still have not received a response. What I do receive, is constant displays of selfishness and disconcern to me and my son.
I was a fan of AK’s last album, we were both signed to J Records and I always checked up on her projects. I sang her songs and admired her for creating Superwoman and Karma, I would never deny her, her talent. I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my husband. The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted months later.
Already I can hear some of you saying ” why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something thats broken”. Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary . Call it blind love, whatever. I call it being a devoted wife.. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, thats false. Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a good place as people and as parents. I accept his choices and I am comfortable enough with myself to move on. I am so very blessed in many ways.
My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing their situation. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud with in my truck? I ask myself sometimes.
If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know what you did. You know the role you played and you know how you contributed to the ending of my marriage. You know that I asked you to step back and let me handle my family issues. Issues that you helped to create. Im not saying everything was perfect all the time but no relationship is perfect. We made a vow to God and I believe you should have respected that, as a woman. I know you owe me or my son nothing but I just wish you would’ve handled things more carefully. I’m not judging you, I put you and the whole situation in the hands of God, the Higher Power. Just know that as a woman, I expected so much more from you. I never had intentions on reaching out to you this way but after reading your twits tonight, and the constant disregard, you left me no choice. I feel that after 1 and a half years of you hiding this affair and acting like it doesnt exist, that now is the time to confront it, since you talk so openly about it now
This is not a publicity stunt, I dont have a record coming out. I just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting our issues. There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he knows we don’t have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!
I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what’s real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human. This is not for the “people”, this is for you. Like I said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way. By now, Im sure you want to find a balance in this as well.
I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive. You have no idea how much pain I was caused because of this affair. Its baffling to me that you don’t understand what I might have gone through with this situation. I dont consider myself a victim anymore, Ive learned alot from this! I just ask you to try and be a bit more realistic and delicate to the situation, at least until my divorce is final. I felt me attending the party would have been a starting point for us, since you shook my hand after I offered it, but I suppose I was wrong.
If its so, that you and my husband are meant to be together, then God bless you both and I hope you never have to deal with what I did. I would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you two being together forever is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I’m not going anywhere. Theres a child to be raised.
To answer your tweet, choose smart over spark. Sparks burn everyone, be smart! Its simple actually, just think of the shoe being on the other foot.
Stay blessed and lets work this thing out with respect and dignity.
Swizz and Mashonda got married in 2004 and have a 2 year old son (born in Jan. 2007). They divorced in April 2009 but the legalities of
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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5/1/2011 12:43 AM |
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I can tell that you're trying to sound smart, but your failure to grasp the English language totally turns me off and took away from your argument. Ex. "somebody whom in which I associate myself with" or "the power in which we possess". Who talks like this? Also what the @#$%! are you talking about? Your whole speech about women being responsible for everything is completely stupid. And as a woman, you should be ashamed of yourself for embracing this anti-feminist rhetoric. everyone's entitled to their opinion, but when you broadcast idiotic views you need to get called out.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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5/6/2011 12:21 PM |
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I agree, Alicia keys anit nothing but a whoer. She anit got no class at all. Anybody that sleeps around with some esles husband while that man is married, don't have no self respect. He's a dog, a dirty ass dog!!!!!!!! I hope Mashonda sues the pants and everything esle he has to offer, off of his black ass!!!!! Both of them are two low down dirty stanking dogs!!!!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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7/25/2011 1:46 PM |
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Good for you, sister. Nice to know there are young people with some sense and morals. A huge problem in our society is disposability...everything is easily thrown away, including marriage. People have an erroneous notion of what love is. Love is not something you find (like a sock under the bed) or fall into (like a pit), but something you build and cultivate over time.
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7/25/2011 1:58 PM |
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And on another note...I take issue with the idea that men are going to cheat. Many, many males, perhaps but very few true men. The status of manhood should not be how many people you copulate with, but how many you do not...in essence, the measure a man is how well he controls his impulses. That is what separates us from the lower species. Any male dog will screw any @#$%! in heat because they are base animals. A man will turn his sniffer and @#$%!er the other way and not indulge just because it is there.
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7/25/2011 2:05 PM |
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And one final note. There is a totally cavalier attitude today regarding the siring of children. Swizz may be able to afford multiple children with multiple partners. Most idiots who are doing it cannot, and thus irresponsibly produce more life to continue a cycle of waste and stupidity, each generation becoming more complete in its self indulgence and wickedness. Welcome to Armageddon, my friends.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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9/3/2011 1:58 AM |
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so she's basically saying Swizz should have stayed in an unhappy relationship..what an idiot,lol
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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2/11/2012 10:44 AM |
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So super true. I have NO MORE respect for her she discuss me. I am a married women and women like her make is possible for men to leave home. Ever think that if they may have been having some problems, if she wasn't there as the to "Make it all better" may it be possible to say they could have "worked things Out". When you have issues with your husband or wife, unless it is cheating, it can always be worked out..through counsel or whatever, but you can't have nobody on the other side making the grass look greener because you will have no desire to put any effort into rebuilding and as for the other that was there mission from the beginning. It just sad. Wake up Women leave married men alone. And wouldn't you want someone that loves you first and not second.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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10/4/2012 8:37 PM |
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What kinda bull@#$%! was that about men will stumble?
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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12/2/2012 12:31 PM |
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its crazy how people give alicia keys a pass and they didnt give Fantasia one. Even Angela Jolie took more flack than Alicia Keys.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
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12/2/2012 12:32 PM |
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everyone given Alicia keys and Mary J. Blige a pass. Mary J. Blige is worse because she is always acting so sanctified.
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