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Lydia Cotton Says That Submission Is The New Curse Word - Especially For These Strong BWs
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 9:40 AM
damn this chick is on point black women take notes. wifey material
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 9:41 AM
BET she single.......
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 10:16 AM
Lol, strong & independent. What does that even mean? It's funny, every BW runs around screaming this and ask them to explain it, you get nonsense replies. Good job falling for the feminist propaganda and ADDING to the destruction of the black family structure. You don't hear no white woman saying they're strong and independent. Weird.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 10:34 AM
Who is this b!tch & why is she always trying to give out advice? Do she have a degree or something?
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 10:58 AM
why does this single chick think she know-it-all about relationships? from now on, only happily married chicks can give advice
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 11:24 AM
To build stonger family units and move forward with the man truly as the head of the househould... this is very true and BW have to STOP trying to impress other females and creating a perpetual cycle of division of the black man and woman and ultimatly the black family....

But as she said he should RESPECT you as a thinking individual and engage in the discussion, but at the end of the day we as BW have to exercise Submission / TRUST in our man to lead his family in the right direction.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 11:52 AM
Submission is a bad word because so many blk women get burned by black men. Trust and believe men see submission as a sign of weakness. She is given blk women bad advice, this woman herself is a baby mama so she need to fall back.

Men fall on emotions too, don't get it twisted. Clearly she got d**k down for this vlog and she is acting all krazy and unclear.

Submission is why T.I. is going back to jail now for a year.

Now she needs to make a video on how Black men can be a better man to Black women.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 11:53 AM
10:16

White middle class women are the ones who started the feminist movement u dumb ass. Get ur facts straight before u talk about a movement u know nothing about. If it wasn't for the feminist movement ur mammy would still be a domestic servant getting raped.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 11:58 AM
If it wasn't for the feminist movement racism and sexism would exist today. Women would be stuck with even more down low men because, back then unmarried men couldn't get ahead in the business world just like unmarried women. If it wasn't for the feminist movement women wouldn't get to vote, go to college or become doctor's and nurses. Ur mother would still be a domestic servant making less than white men and women put together. So get ur facts straight.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 12:00 PM
If ur man can't make discussions why is he ur man?? The better question is if u feel ur masculinity is in question then why are u with THAT SAID WOMAN?? It goes both ways. I am so sick of this Lydia "babymama" @#$%!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 12:01 PM
I'm happy that there are women out there that actually get it! I know most of you black women have a hard time with handling the truth, but no man wants a women that is so strong that he feels his women is going to go toe to toe with him. What are you trying to prove? God made man and then he made women to be his companion... Someone has to take the lead. Like Lydia said, most women are too emotional to make rational decisions. Women have their role and that is to be supportive of their man instead of having some type of inferiority complex. How would you feel if your man cried everytime he watched a movie? You probably would tell him to act like a man! Well, when we act like men and that means to provide for and protsct his family, too many women want to second guess his every move when you hit a bump in the road. When things are going well and the money is flowing and dinners and vacations are being paid for, I never hear a women say stop, you're doing something wrong. Ladies, please relax and let a good man do what he does best...Take care of his family and treat you like the queens you were born to be!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 12:02 PM
Advice to Lydia if it wasn't for the feminist movement u wouldn't be on this vlog given out unwarranted advice.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 12:05 PM
F** this @#$%! and her bad advice we live in a different society, she can't tell me house to run my household when I am bringing money home. Try being somebody's wife instead of they babymama Lydia. U not even on the comeup but u go so much advice to give.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 12:12 PM
U want Black women to "pick wisely" but when they too, their standards are too high. When they pick low, then they stupid for picking a man who isn't worthy of submission. U just contradicted urself!!

U a dumb basic baby mama Lydia Cotton, Black women don't need advice from someone who isn't married herself.

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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 12:36 PM
Having a submissive mom is why Michael Jackson lived as a tortured soul.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 12:37 PM
She bragging about getting her hair done I bet she didn't even pay her car note. Simple ass broad.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 12:39 PM
She given out advice like she is some licensed therapist. Boo B***h bye!!!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 12:56 PM
im dumb as hell, i just now realized why i dont understand yall comments. its because yall angry and bitter, and i dont have those problems. all this time i was trying to come on here and argue with yall, and now i realize there is no argument because we live in two different worlds. we are both right, in my world its nothing wrong with black women, in your world they aint sh1t
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 1:08 PM
I agree with this chick for once. usually I don't agree with jackshyt she talks about but she hit the nail on the head this time.

Women need to submit to a man, if you are not willing to submit why are you single and begging for a man? get a vibrator, two batteries and call it a day.

Men want to feel like a man and a lot of these so called "strong independent black women" love to strip their men of their masculinity.

A lot of black women don't even know the meaning of strength. Being a loud bytch and with a stank attitude is strength. a lot of black women need to stop throwing around the "strong black woman" phrase. Learn to define strength before you put it in your vocabulary.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 1:09 PM
isn't strength*
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 1:18 PM
Everybody that's is claiming to be so happy then why are u sooooo worried about other women then? U do u, and I will do me.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 3:16 PM
so what does she call herself? Colored...really? somebody date this broad, so she can find a new hobby

*forever ringless*
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 4:06 PM
submission has FAILED MANY WOMEN LOL
ALOT OF MEN CANT LEAD HIS OWN LIFE lol
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 4:07 PM
males on here talking mess when they single and lonely
otherwise they wouldbnt be on here
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 4:08 PM
A Strong woman INTIMidates a Man
he feels less of a Man
if you have a good head on your shoulders
he feels uneducated if you have a education
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 4:09 PM
only thugs can handle strong women
sad but true
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 4:11 PM
i see black men who are with white women
the black man walks behind the white woman
I love dem white women
cuz they dont let you n!ggas run them
like you fake for the world LMAO
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 4:24 PM
Ladies when you decide to say YES! to that man you want to be strong remember Ruth and Esther. Bridal regisry at @#$%!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 4:28 PM
submission should go both ways
man is not God
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 4:30 PM
Ruth and Esther were stong women who knew how to get what they wanted and needed from their men. all you engaged and recently married ladies go to princess-house..com/MColeman002
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 4:32 PM
submission is only talked about online
no where else

peace out
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 4:33 PM
My husband never felt the need
for me to submit to him
we both treat each other equal
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 4:58 PM
As a man, I don't necessarily like to 'dominate'.

Domination in any relationship is not a good thing. Neither is submission. I believe that both the man and women should be involved in making any decision which will impact one another's lives. This is important.

However, I do feel it is in my nature to be protective of my lady. I belong to her as she belongs to me, however, it is simply natural that I feel the need to lead in a relationship. It shows charisma, it shows strength in character, and I believe women like to see this in a man, as it shows them the man is a worthy partner.

In the physical realm of cuddling, and sex, I think males should not take a 'dominate' role. However, they should lead.

This is also shared in decision making as it shows strength in character, but please guys, be humble. Your way is not going to be the best way. You have to compromise and collaborate with your partner.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 7:06 PM
Everyone above me eats skeet...
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 8:43 PM
well I want to know if she is single or not; if she is single then she needs to shut up
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 8:53 PM
I agree with her 100%! Thats probably why a lot of black women are single and dont have husbands because they dont know how to let the man be the man in the relationship. They want to run everything like they are a man and their not. I see women run over men and b!tch and punk them out everyday and thats not cool. A real man would stand up for himself and not let a woman tun over him.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 8:58 PM
correction: A real Man would not let a female or anybody run over him. He would assert himself and stand up for himself like a real Man would. Of course without having to use physical violence towards a female.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 9:35 PM
@ 4:58

Speak on it man. I am so sick of these weak lonely ass men on hear begging for his man hood and old wrinkle desperate broads co-signing on BS. Not everyman is meant to lead and if u are taking high risk that will impact the family I will have a input on it regardless of what the babymama Lydia Cotton has to say about it.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/25/2010 10:43 PM
She still aint phuckin wit shanell cooper sykes, but she is getting there


i want to have a foursome with her, alexyss k tylor, chanell cooper, and blaqueindigo from yo utube
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Maywood (Chi-Town) Says: 10/25/2010 11:37 PM
I WISH SOMEBODY WOULD JUST DROP A BUCKET OF WATER ON THIS HOE. TALKING NONSENSE AS USUAL. I WANT A WIFE NOT A YES WOMAN
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/26/2010 12:55 AM
i love submitting for my man, and he ain't even black!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/26/2010 2:19 AM
WHY DO YOU KEEP POSTING THIS IGNORANT @#$%! FROM THIS RANDOM LADY ON THIS WEBSITE? WHAT DOES THIS HAVE TO DO WITH ANYTHING AT ALL?
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/26/2010 5:30 AM
^ LMAO
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/26/2010 7:51 AM
this is stupid as hell
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/26/2010 8:53 AM
REAL TALK
SHE IS FINE AS HELL
SO WHO CARES WHAT THE HELL SHE IS TALKING ABOUT
YES IM IGNORANT
YES ITS A STUPID COMMENT
BUT ALL THE REAL BRUHS IN HERE ARE SAYING DAMN SHE FINE
THEN WE LISTEN TO WHAT SHE SAYS
MAYBE
IF I GOTTA KISS A LITTLE ASS TO GET ONE THAT LOOKS LIKE THIS THEN SO BE IT...
SHE DOESNT HAVE TO SUBMIT TO ME ID BE HAPPY TO TAKE CARE OF ONE THAT TAKES CARE OF HERSELF AND LOOKS THIS GOOD.
BUT IF YOU ARE NOT EVEN TRYING TO LOOK GOOD THEN DONT WASTE TIME SUBMITTING,WE DONT REALLY WANT SUBMISSION ANYWAY WE JUST WANT A NICE PIECE OF THE PIE. SO TO END IT ...BE REALISTIC, IF YOU AINT THAT PRETTY JUST GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE STOP TRYING TO PLEASE PEOPLE BUT IF YOU ARE HOT LIKE THIS ONE DONT WORRY ABOUT A THING SOMEBODY WILL TAKE CARE OF ALL YOUR BUSINESS FOR YOU, AND ONE MORE THING, IF YOU ARE NOT ATTRACTIVE DONT TAKE ADVICE FROM SOMEONE THAT LOOKS LIKE A DAMN EBONY MODEL LIKE THIS ONE ,SHE PICKS AND CHOOSES WHO SHE WANTS, UNATTRACTIVE WOMEN CANNOT PICK THEY ARE CHOSEN.
DONT LIKE MY COMMENT ?
GO INTO YOUR BATHROOM AND LOOK IN THE MIRROR
LOOK DEEPER THAN THE IMAGE YOU SEE...THEN JUST BE HAPPY WITH WHATEVER YOU GOT
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/26/2010 1:36 PM
stupidest thing i ever damn seen
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/26/2010 1:36 PM
she needs to submit to my @#$%!
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/26/2010 1:39 PM
if she likes to submit so much, why doesn't she shut the fluck up and listen...biggest hypocrite I ever seen in my damn life. how she gonna submit when she is telling other b itches to submit to her ignorant ideas? LMAO dumb a ss b itch
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/26/2010 1:47 PM
damn right she better submit, or imma make dat byotch learn. Betta not be mouthing off when she my wifey, or else she gonna be icing that eye for a minute.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
10/28/2010 6:42 AM
thumbs up 10/25 11:53am, 12:02 pm and 4:58pm!

dime wars why do you continue to put this idiotic girl's videos on your site? one of my biggest pet peeves is ppl who contradict themselves, and this girl is the queen of it!! STFU!!
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10/28/2010 10:05 PM
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DimeWars Guest Says:
11/6/2010 1:04 PM
Yea black men do need to get their sh*t in order we need to take back our women and love and protect them. Don't get it confused these devils have took over our house. Real black men need to stand up on this (not the down low's). I love this young lady she on the right path. As far as the feminist movement, u think them white chicks gave a care about black women? Get your heads out the crack of them keebla's asses.
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DimeWars Guest Says:
11/30/2010 10:40 PM
I want to marry this chick. So she can submit to me!
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